Great. Poor kids:
The only thing worse than your mom being a biotch is when your dad is an even bigger one.
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Originally Posted by The Big Lebowski Dude
Nice to hear this. The divorce laws always favor women, and it makes me sick. Guys always get screwed financially in these cases.
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How so? Gender-income inequality? Poverty level? Statistically speaking, following a divorce;
my income will go
down by 20% but
the guys income will
go up by 30%. And
I'm also
3 times as likely to live in post-divorce
poverty as the guy is.
https://www.theatlantic.com/business...ce-gap/480333/
Child support? According to the Census Bureau:
"The average yearly child support payment received by custodial parents with payments was $5,181 for mothers and $6,526 for fathers. These full or partial payments represented about 16% of the custodial mothers' total yearly income and 9% of the custodial fathers' yearly income."
https://fas.org/sgp/crs/misc/RS22499.pdf
Okay ... that means that mom is getting $431 per month? And notice it doesn't say "per child" either. That
MIGHT cover ...
2 weeks of childcare + a
1 week supply of diapers. Or; it
MIGHT cover
1 kids back to school fees (with yearbook) + Sports physical +
5 days of food ...
And
nine percent of the guys income for a child he was
50% responsible for? That's a
sweet deal ... Let's not confuse "screwing" with "being screwed"..
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Originally Posted by Electrician4you
I don't know about physical abuse but it's probably similar to if a woman was physically abused.
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I'm very glad you don't know about physical abuse. (raises hand)
But I do!
I know that the two times I hit
back? It made him laugh.
I know that the first time he hit me? He didn't have to do it again because it knocked me out cold.
I know that when
he wanted to leave without an explanation? He'd start a fight & stomp out.
I know that when
I tried to leave during a fight? I made it about 2 steps before I was unconscious on the floor ...
again.
I know that the last straw for me? Was coming home from a 12 hr shift; 7 months pregnant with
two black eyes ... & as I walk up to the door, I hear him bragging: "Hey bro? One thing about MY girl? ...Is that
she sure knows how to take a punch!" There is nothing similar about it at all. But that's just anecdotal coming from me. Here's how the numbers crunch, courtesy of the American Public Health Association:
"Femicide, the homicide of women, is the
leading cause of death in the United States among young African American women aged 15 to 45 years and the seventh leading cause of premature death among women overall.
American women are killed by
intimate partners (husbands, lovers, ex-husbands, or ex-lovers) more often than by
any other type of perpetrator. Intimate partner homicide accounts for approximately
40% to 50% of US femicides but a relatively
small proportion of male homicides (5.9%).
The percentage of intimate partner homicides involving
male victims
decreased between 1976 and 1996, whereas the percentage of
female victims increased, from 54% to
72%.
The majority
(67%–80%) of intimate partner homicides involve physical abuse of the female by the male before the murder, no matter which partner is killed. Therefore, one of the major ways to decrease intimate partner homicide is to identify and intervene with battered women at risk."
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1447915/
Umm; anyone catch that very last sentence? Less people die ... of either gender ... when interventions target the woman. Less dead parents ... of either gender ... is
good for kids.