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Originally Posted by twelvepaw
Not true.
Get one puppy and get it trained.
If you still want another puppy, wait until the first is about 2 years old.
Getting two puppies at a time of any breed isn't recommended- they will have a tendency to bond to each other more than to you. As well, you will still need to train them separately and spend quality time with each of them. Having two puppies at the same time doesn't mean you get to do things once for both pups, but rather that you work, play, and train each individually.
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I pretty much agree with this. Here is my experience - I have a sis/bro combo English shepherd rescues. Smart dogs -
thinking dogs. Got them August last year ('15). They were 2 3/4 yrs old then. One of the reasons we got them was because they were great at playing with each other and dealing with each other.
Brought them home, and soon realized that something about this training was not going according to plan. We've had rescues for years and years, and trained them all, at least for basic civility and manners.
So I did a little research. Contacted some rescue people. Contacted some breed people. Contacted some people who train and live with collie-type herding dogs - so you could say I found some work-type specific people.
Everybody agreed - training siblings is a problem. The most accurate opinion expressed, based on my experience, was that training siblings can be done, but it is difficult. A couple of people downright dismissed any idea that it was even do-able.
That accurate opinion said things like "they keep each other immature", and "they distract each other". In my case, this was accurate. It wasn't so much that they "bonded" to each other instead of bonding to humans - it was that they could distract each other, and the two of them could create a more rewarding play-state than I could provide with my training treats.
I can see these two would have been easier to train to do more if they were not together. But this has also been a learning experience for me - and I am a much better dog-trainer for working with these guys than I was before. (And my last two dogs got regular compliments on their good behavior. )
They have a special relationship, and we like that. They are also becoming very well-behaved dogs, and we like that. It is taking a lot of work - EVERY day we do something - even if it is only a couple of commands and a couple of minutes. They have to earn everything they do that they WANT to do. And, they have to respond to individual commands. E.g. #1 "sit. And Stay". #2 "come". Etc. They don't eat, unless we do some
individual and self-calming, command practice before eating. They have to learn to control themselves, and not respond automatically because the sibling did.
So, now, 8 months later, and I've begun relaxing just a little. But I can't relax much, because they will quickly take advantage.
Now, I have two problems, really. I have smart, thinking dogs. AND they are siblings. Other dogs, other breeds - well - dogs are like people. Each one is an individual, right? Maybe two spaniels would be easier, and
maybe they would be harder. You can't predict.
But what you can predict, is that training two siblings together is a harder road than training them singly. All the experienced people I talked to said the same. They used different words from each other, but pretty much the same message. And I can readily believe that I would get better results from these two as individuals if I were able to completely separate them.
But, I can't, and I won't. And they have bonded to their humans quite well. And, they are learning to be good enough for our family. Ultimately, isn't that the bottom line for every dog owner? Can you train the dog to be good enough for you and your life? And these guys are doing that. So, I'm happy!