My body image issue

[InNeedOfAdvice]

Originally Posted by jerseygal4u

Are you saying you would rather be fat,but cute and receive attention from guys rather than be skinny but healthy?
I think all of us women think about losing some bodypart when losing weight...for me,its my breast. They are always the first to go down,when I need some other part like my upper arms to go down.

Well yea, I guess I am kinda saying that. I'm actually not happy at either weight. But I noticed I get more attention from guys now that my butt has gotten bigger. Like I mentioned before, I went to visit a friend I hadn't seen in almost a year and she kept commenting on how I good I looked and I was like, "Really"?? And she kept on saying "Yea girl...it's the booty...it's the booty...I'm telling you!".

Now, this may sound corny, country, ghetto, or whatever, but we're talking a pretty vain, classy, 6-figure professional telling me that my bigger butt makes me look prettier....

[InNeedOfAdvice]

Originally Posted by tickyul

Get some of them "booty inplants!!!


That way you can lose the weight and still have a great booty!!!!

I'd rather do smartlipo...I'm scared of a foreign object being implanted into my body

[sltnet]

well don't cut off what you eat but you can add in few workouts everyday. a little bit of cardio wouldn't kill your butt

[tickyul]

Originally Posted by InNeedOfAdvice

I'd rather do smartlipo...I'm scared of a foreign object being implanted into my body

Just get the right implants, go to a good plastic surgeon.....it will work fine. Then you can have a shadonkadonk that needs to be carried around in a truck!!!!

[Opsimathia]

Originally Posted by InNeedOfAdvice

Really? Many of the 'smartlipo' results I see are from women who have large amounts of fat and want it removed/deposited somewhere else...


What's a healthy weight for a woman my height?


No, I haven't been caring about what I eat. I've been pretty depressed for over a year now.


I guess the point is, I don't like my shape at 'any' weight. At a healthy weight, my breasts are still disproportionately huge (at 120 I'm still a 32F), and my butt is disproportionately flat.

Yeah. But that is a little extreme for me. Sort of should be thought of as last resort. Plus you need to be eating healthy for best results with that too.

100-120lbs is good. You still need to eat right for healthy muscle support. What is your body fat?

Maybe you just need to reduce body fat and work on your backside with weighted exercise to really see the results you want. High body fat can make your chest be larger than it really is, and give you a flat butt.

[jade408]

I think that unfortunately bigger breasts on a smaller rib cage comes paired with a flat butt. Squats and deadlifts are your best friend and really make a butt appear! They did for me and have a ways to go.


I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.