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I think on an instinctive level (somewhat) larger breasts are always going to have a certain sex appeal; however, I think guys who fixate totally on that, even going so far as to dismiss a gal because she's smaller up top, are douchebags and knuckleheads.
There IS a visual appeal to large breasts, it's undeniable; but I think women tend to fixate on the alleged male fixation rather much, just as guys tend to fixate way too much on penis size and whether or not women find such-and-such size appealing.
It seems that no matter how many women say they prefer something average, so long as they guy knows how to operate what he's got, it only takes ONE woman to step up and say something like "I don't know who these ladies think they're fooling, but I can tell you size DOES matter and it's ALL that matters!"
Instantly it's as though everything the other women said was erased and the poor schmoe is left there pointing to the size-queen's statement and shouting "SEE?!? SEE?!? I KNEW IT WAS TRUE!"
I think a lot of women who are smaller can be reassured until Kingdom Come, but all it takes to invalidate all that is to be busted making a single glance at a pair of honkin' jakoobies as they bounce past, and she's all "Oh, I KNEW that was what you REALLY wanted!"
But it is, isn't it? Otherwise why look? Especially with the way you describe them.
And guys, please listen to me, I'll go off topic: regarding penis size, a lot of women are just being brainwashed by the media. I bet many of them have not been with a big guy and maybe say that bigger is better simply out of curiosity, because they've never been with a bigger guy. I, myself, have never been with a big guy. Would I like to know what it's like? Maybe. But not necessarily, I've watched porn and it looks scary.
You see, regarding penis size, I once wanted to know what's better. So I looked for expert opinions. And what a better expert than a female porn star. Sadly, the article isn't online anymore, because it was a freaking gem!
She said that working as a porn star she had (obviously) seen many penises. She worked with many big guys. She said that the single most important thing porn had taught her was that the anatomy of the other person didn't make a single difference in how much fun you had in bed.
She said that even though feeling a lot of penetration felt good from time to time, but that a big penis wasn't needed for that. She also said that big penises were in most cases not fun to have sex with... they were a bit uncomfortable. She also said that het sex is not all about the penis going in and out, and that, as a woman, she needed dynamic sex, like most women.
I believe her. She's a porn star. She's been in bed with possibly hundreds of guys. She's an expert in the field. Therefore, I'll take her word. Size does matter, yes: too big can be uncomfortable, not fun, etc. There's a reason why average is average: it's the best size for nature's purposes. And remember guys, good sex is not all about the penis.
Oh dear god. She is just saying that so all the little one eyed wankers still buy her porn tapes. Also you should not based your sexual experience on a porn stars. Constant exposure to friction dulls sensation and again..that crap is just market speak. Like a scummy guy who wants to get in your pants and "understands how you really feel" UGH.
I did not finish growing till after 25. They also get bigger if you get very fat or have a baby.
Lot's of them do actually, but if you aren't small, what's to admit? Too many girls (notice I said girls, not women) like to end a debate by hitting below the belt and accusing the guy of having a small package instead of discussing the issue like an adult, cutting their losses and moving on, or admitting when they are wrong.
It's just funny that you got defensive, it makes me believe that it's true is all. I guess I'm still a girl, think what you want because your opinion doesn't really matter to me. I can't admit I'm wrong or right because I obviously don't know for sure what your size is, nor do I care. But the fact, that you were all defensive makes me wonder...
Oh dear god. She is just saying that so all the little one eyed wankers still buy her porn tapes. Also you should not based your sexual experience on a porn stars. Constant exposure to friction dulls sensation and again..that crap is just market speak. Like a scummy guy who wants to get in your pants and "understands how you really feel" UGH.
I did not finish growing till after 25. They also get bigger if you get very fat or have a baby.
Well then, the solution for small guys is to date small girls. By small, I mean short girls who are petite all over. They will generally have smaller sized vaginas. Women with small vaginas can't take a big penis without it hurting like hell. I've known of couples who've loved each other very much but had bad sex because he was too big for her, and it hurt her.
Women's vaginas also have different sizes so there's someone out there for everybody. But anyway, penises are concealed, so it's very different than breasts.
It's just funny that you got defensive, it makes me believe that it's true is all. I guess I'm still a girl, think what you want because your opinion doesn't really matter to me. I can't admit I'm wrong or right because I obviously don't know for sure what your size is, nor do I care. But the fact, that you were all defensive makes me wonder...
Well, even if he has a small penis, or all guys who post here have small penises, does it matter? you're hijacking the post anyway...
I WISH I had lewd men staring at my **** all the time. I don't get why big breasted women complain so much; they stare 'cause you're hot, deal with it. Gee.
Firstly, be careful what you wish for.
Secondly, did you know some men love big booties too? So what? I don't know of ONE man who broke up with his girlfriend because her breasts or butt were too small.
I know for a fact that I don't match my husband's "ideal" looks-wise, but I also know there is not one thing he would change about how I look (other than maybe get a tan ).
I'm sorry OP--I feel the same way. I've been told I'm quite attractive by many men but the porn industry these days does make us smaller chested women feel not adequate. I found out that my boyfriend was also into "LARGE breasts" and it really hurt my feelings, because that is something I cannot change, unless I get breast implants (which I would love to do, but cannot afford them for the time being) it just sucks that men can make us feel so insecure over things we can't control
The only one who can make you feel insecure is you.
That would be because I stated on my first post in this forum that I felt "insecure" about my breast size, earlier I had commented on another post about "Small Packages" and he thought that it was a double-standard apparently because I had broken up with a previous boyfriend for not being a very satisfying sexual partner due to his size. So I guess he thought it was unfair for me to judge and not be judged...which like I said I have never been turned down because of my size, just felt insecure because of the porn industry which makes men seem to look at women a different way, not all but some.
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