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Originally Posted by lisalan
A couple of men even said that they were aroused by this thread so I really don't buy the argument that this forum would have any interest for heterosexual males.
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There is nothing arousing about this thread and those poor guys most likely are just desperadoes.
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Originally Posted by Bigbluelandrover
Only a woman knows how good it feels when the makeup is perfect, the hair is fly, the dress hugs the curves perfectly, the bra is just right and the heels don't hurt.
Ok, the couple and the sans undies-I can understand.
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Regardless of their sexual orientation it is still males who have mainly decided the shape of women's fashions but fair enough...I was merely pointing out the irony of the statement that men could not be interested.
There is more to fashion though than merely knowing your makeup is perfect, the feeling of fabric as it hugs your curves perfectly, and the struggle to find the perfect bra or well-fitting heels.
There is also being able to understand that a good garment should have form and function, regardless if it is for a male or a female.
I am aware and sympathize with the struggles my wife has in selecting (and keeping) a good pair of shoes (because after a few hours the fact they won't be a perfect match is disappointing).
My fingertips and skin are no stranger to knowing there is a difference in how textiles feel.
And I can also tell when a woman's makeup does not compliment her looks and becomes too much (if I can even tell if she has any on outside of some celebratory function or in the pursuit of some alternative form of style).
In either case it is highly sexist to assume fashion interests are only for females and it is even more offensive (it is not really offensive to me since I am being a bit rhetorical) to then begin assuming those males who are must be homosexuals, not that there is anything wrong with that, but there is plenty of wrong when we begin to speculate and comment on someone else's sexuality.
To reiterate, while it is perfectly obvious that the average man is not interested in fashion (most also do not read books) it does not mean that every man who is not average is automatically a homosexual.
So while quite a few men might come out of the woodwork when there are topics that might be fodder for their sexual fantasies, these same men are probably quite average.
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Originally Posted by Bigbluelandrover
So how many men do you know that walk around with no underwear on?
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Perhaps a better question would be how many men would request this of their woman, and then how many women would request this from their man?
protip: it works better with a skirt
Science has proven that men and women are attracted to different stimuli. While men are more graphic, women are more imaginative.
In either case I do not want to defend this topic, it perhaps is better discussed in more private quarters, but I do want to add that it is perhaps a bit unfair for women to simply dismiss anything a man would find appealing as disgusting, on the same token it is also unfair when a man labels a woman's desires as sappy.
There has to be a happy medium where men and women please each other, are able to give each other what works, and still having fun.
In either case I understand that this thread is not going to substitute for that happy medium and that you are going to have many pervs running through it even if acting pervy is something better reserved for private situations if such actions are actually desired by both parties.
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