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I am sure many of you have made the same observations as I have. It seems there are no limits to anything anymore. Specifically what you show to everyone now.
1-See through clothes while working out AND leaving the gym wearing the clothes.
2-Clothes that show imprints of your "anatomy".
3-Having tattoos placed on private areas of the body( Breasts, behind,in the Y area).
4-Placing tasteless photos on dating sites. I am not talking 19 y/o's neither. Try 40y/o women.
Where does it stop? How on gods earth do you expect to find a GOOD man when you're showing EVERYTHING to the whole damn world?
No, I am not saying dress like a NUN. But gee-whiz, where is the class?
Of course, when the guy looks at you or approaches you for SEX only......you act as if you're insulted.
You can dress "chic" and still be attractive to the opposite sex. It can be done.
Please don't come in here talking about " Oh, I see guys showing, blah, blah, blah.......
This is not about guys.
I really do like class when it comes to women.
Your thoughts....let's discuss.
Ron
Last edited by Ron.; 03-07-2010 at 09:06 AM..
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I am sure many of you have made the same observations as I have. It seems there are no limits to anything anymore. Specifically what you show to everyone now.
1-See through clothes while working out AND leaving the gym wearing the clothes.
2-Clothes that show imprints of your "anatomy".
3-Having tattoos placed on private areas of the body( Breasts, behind,in the Y area).
4-Placing tasteless photos on dating sites. I am noting talking 10 y/o neither. Try 40y/o women.
When does it stop. How on gods name do you expect to find a GOOD man when you're showing EVERYTHING to the whole damn world?
No, I am not saying dress like a NUN. But gee-whiz, where is the class?
Of course, when the guy looks at you or approaches you for SEX only......you act as if you're insulted.
You can dress "chic" and still be attractive to the opposite sex. It can be done.
Please don't come in here talking about " Oh, I see guys showing, blah, blah, blah.......
This is not about guys.
I really do like class when it comes to women.
You thoughts....let's discuss.
Ron
I agree with this. Less is more, IMO.
Also, "one size fits all" doesn't mean you should be wearing it.
Rather than cover up, I'd say, know your limitations. Nothing wrong with flaunting what you have if done tastefully. While I've seen some women who I swear must own a carnival mirror at home and do not see what the rest of us see (muffin tops, beer bellies, etc), I see many women who know how to show off the goods without looking sloppy. You don't have to be a supermodel, but you do have to dress in such a way that it enhances your finer assets while leaving something to the imagination. Split the difference between the Amish look and porn star...somewhere down the middle.
As usual I agree with PTC. I like to leave something to the imagination. I think it's more fun for guys to try to imagine you naked rather than having it thrown in their face before they know your name.
As usual I agree with PTC. I like to leave something to the imagination. I think it's more fun for guys to try to imagine you naked rather than having it thrown in their face before they know your name.
I am sure many of you have made the same observations as I have. It seems there are no limits to anything anymore. Specifically what you show to everyone now.
1-See through clothes while working out AND leaving the gym wearing the clothes.
2-Clothes that show imprints of your "anatomy".
3-Having tattoos placed on private areas of the body( Breasts, behind,in the Y area).
4-Placing tasteless photos on dating sites. I am not talking 19 y/o's neither. Try 40y/o women.
Where does it stop? How on gods earth do you expect to find a GOOD man when you're showing EVERYTHING to the whole damn world?
No, I am not saying dress like a NUN. But gee-whiz, where is the class?
Of course, when the guy looks at you or approaches you for SEX only......you act as if you're insulted.
You can dress "chic" and still be attractive to the opposite sex. It can be done.
Please don't come in here talking about " Oh, I see guys showing, blah, blah, blah.......
This is not about guys.
I really do like class when it comes to women.
Your thoughts....let's discuss.
Ron
I agree with you Ron, I would rep you but I need to spread it around first.
Normally I dont have any complaints about women dressing this way, Im a guy so Im going to look whether the woman likes it or not
When I am at work it is a different story. I try to smile and be nice but I have to try VERY hard not to look at whatever it is that they're showing off whether it be their bosoms, their rear ends or whatever. And most often times these women are with very tough looking men, so I worry that if she doesn't catch me HE will. I work in a supermarket so I see it all the time
I dont want to find some pissed off boyfriend or husband waiting in the parking lot for me when I get off work
Then again I know that I am not very confident in myself, so most often times if the girl is single, I wont bother talking to her because I feel like I cannot impress her or catch her attention through any legitimate means because I feel she could do so much better then me. Nowadays I just leave women alone
Hey Ron, I am glad a man said it! Wow does it need to be said. What is wrong with covering some up? And I am not just talking about fat chics either. I talking about all chics. It just is not nice to expose every inch of ur body almost to the general public. "Women or more than the sum total of their parts." We spout off ideals of equality, independence and social evolution; yet, we seem to be driven by the very thing women have struggled against for so many years. Women should want to be seen as equal contributors not sexual objects - (u know unless its appropriate) There is a time and a place for everything. "The freaks come out at night" I am just saying know the time... and the place.... to bear it all
I don't see where it is one person's place to tell another how to dress. That smells of controlling. I personally prefer a woman that knows the time and places to dress...I can just choose not to associate myself with those that I don't think do as well as I would like.
Vivre et laisser vivre.
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There is a time and a place for everything. "The freaks come out at night"
I am just saying know the time... and the place.... to bear it all
