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Glad the weather hasn't been awful in your area - when I see pictures of my dear SC, my heart breaks.
Dealing with yukky weather here too, and we live in an area that can be flooded (we have already been flooded last month, and this is just the beginning of rainy season here...).
I am really proud of myself---I was a mess---first my insurance then my power bill was not delivered and I got a 2 month bill--like I can afford that. I was beside myself--I called the main Post Office and talked to a lady that was so helpful and caring--imagine that! She calmed me down and said I had every reason to be upset if I was not getting my mail in my Post Office Box! That's why we got a PO box--security! Anyhow she took a complaint and said she would make sure it was looked into--I believe her! Then I called my homeowners insurance and the lady there was also very nice---she even talked to her manager and they decided to reinstate my insurance--YES! I guess her manager had just gotten off the phone with another customer who had the very same problem. So now I have homeowners insurance again--even paid for already! I also got my car insurance straightened out---they had forgotten to add the complete coverage...but that is done now too. I was so beside myself earlier and then decided I had to get myself together and take charge--and I did it! Patting myself on my back now. This was most definitely a step forward day!
Honestly I cannot imagine how I did all of this right after my DH passed away--I got homeowners insurance one week after his passing and did so much to keep ebay up and going again without losing any reps. I don't even remember doing it. It's odd how our minds can take over in bad situations. Of course I believe God was there guiding me the whole way! This week end was even worse because I'm not in a haze like I was so now I have to think things through if that makes any sense. I guess before I really just did not care but now I do.
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See! You made it! It'll get even better.. Just don't fixate on the negative and no you really can't control life. It happens and the only thing you can control is how you choose to react!
Honestly I cannot imagine how I did all of this right after my DH passed away--I got homeowners insurance one week after his passing and did so much to keep ebay up and going again without losing any reps. I don't even remember doing it. It's odd how our minds can take over in bad situations. Of course I believe God was there guiding me the whole way! This week end was even worse because I'm not in a haze like I was so now I have to think things through if that makes any sense. I guess before I really just did not care but now I do.
You rock! I wish you would keep reminding yourself that you have already overcome more than most women have. Quit being so hard on yourself. Your first reaction is to think you're falling short, but you are not.
That's why I need to come here...for the wonderful people that care and hold me up! I honestly think this thread has helped me move forward---thank you all!
That's why I need to come here...for the wonderful people that care and hold me up! I honestly think this thread has helped me move forward---thank you all!
Sudcaro, you have no idea how much that means to me. It's a hard road but I will make it especially with friends like you and the others here!
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