I have lived in Huntington for just over 3 years and I think it is a fantastic city to live in. It's a great city to raise a family in, and from what I've seen, the school systems are excellent. In my opinion, it's propbably the best city in WV. Huntington offers something for just about everyone. Here are some links to check out some of the area's attractions:
City of Huntington, West Virginia
The Greater Huntington Community Web Portal
Greater Huntington Park and Recreation District
Huntington Museum of Art, Huntington, WV
Pullman Square - Restaurants Shopping Entertainment
Under Construction
Downtown Huntington had suffered from neglect for many years, but is currently undergoing an extensive revitalization and is thirving once again. The new development, Pullman Square, has helped spur a lot of this growth in addtion to some new community interest and involvement.
A lot of people complain of "high" crime in Huntington. True, there is crime in the area and there are bad sections of town, this is something that you will encounter no matter where you reside, though. I have always felt very safe in Huntington.
The biggest downfall in Huntington would have to be the negative attitude of a lot of the residents (mostly older people, I hate to say). They tend to complain a lot about things and want to see changes for the better, but yet refuse to do anything to make those changes. In addition, once things start to improve, then they start to complain about that, too. It's just a catch-22 and can be very frustrating at times. But the situation is improving as more people from out of town move here and offer a new perspective and often have a new found love for Huntington and see its potential. (and I'm one of those people!)
The upper middle class neighborhoods in Huntington are Southside (near Ritter Park), South Hills/Park Hills (near the museum), and Stamford Park.
Barboursville is a small village about 10-15 minutes from downtown that you might be interested in. This is also where the mall is located. The school systems here are also ranked very high. Some of the upper middle class areas in Barboursville include Deer Creek and Timberlake. A little further from Barboursville, you might be interested in Regal Oaks and Esquire sub-divisions, about 20-25 minutes from downtown.
There are plenty of sub-divisions in the area to choose from, it just depends on what you are looking for and where you want to live.
Hope this anwers your questions!