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Originally Posted by tahiti
yawn. you're the one who grew up in tenafly, correct? and now live in mountain lakes? forgive me if I don't believe you were most likely born into circumstances that 99% of the population wouldn't give their left arm for.
LOTS of successful people became successful through no hard work, no perseverance and no sacrifice, but solely because they were born into the right family.
How insulting is this phrase: "It is damn harder to WORK YOUR BUTT OFF TO REACH Financial Success & Give the best education for your kids THAN TO be in a threadmill & REMAIN POOR !!!"
You show me a rich person who worked hard, and I'll show you a working class poor person working 10xs harder. I make multiple times the income my parents did *together* and I'll tell you what - they worked MUCH harder than I ever did or do. What an elitist statement you made. Shame on you.
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let me jump in here.
some here seem to mix up " Working Hard" & " Hard Work".
I was an educator for many years in NJ High schools for Northern NJ before realizing 12 years ago that I needed to make " Real Money" if I needed to provide the education for my kids that I wanted.
I built a 1 person start-up 11 years ago using my expertise in College applications & financial aid to help thousands of parents. Today, we are a staff of 35 employees & I just opened a 2nd branch in NY last January with a staff of 4.
Having a rough manual job in construction, or paving the roads , or collecting garbage disposals in HARD WORK.
But that DOES NOT mean that a Successful Corporate Executive or a Successful Business owner working in an Office environment works LESS EFFORT or does NOT work as hard as a manual related job
The problem with people who REFUSE to accept responsibility for their Financial status in life is they SOMEHOW believe that a person who is successful & wealthy made it thru pure Luck or because of their parents, or some flimsy excuse.
People..... you will NEVER EVER reach any sort of Financial independence or well being in your ENTIRE lifetime ( and yes, million upon millions go 6 feet under without ever figuring this out) UNTIL YOU REALIZE......
-Most Billionaires & Millionaires in America are SELF-MADE !!!! Get that straight. ! They came from regular families
- That wealthy/Rich/Affluent people are not the demon, the devil.
In fact, the SACRIFICE, the HOURS, the PRESSURE of RISKING EVERYTHING without a security of a paycheck for many years until they reach the top SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT THEM as a GROUP.
80% of americans would rather watch TV for hours every night, 80% of americans have the luxury of shutting off their JOBS after 5pm
-80% of americans would NEVER worked 6 or 7 days per week for years
-80% of the population would NEVER SPEND most of their money just to send their kids to the BEST SCHOOLS which cost tons of money.
-80% of people will FOREVER pick the SECURITY OF A PAYCHECK over
Self Employment, Entrepreneurship & Business.
-80% of people WOULD NEVER EVER pay $2000, $3000, $5000 EVERY MONTH for their business rent, equipment, marketing, NEVER !!!!
Then you wonder why the WEALTHY always stays at 10% to 20% of the population.
Asian kids spend 3 hours a night studying their butt off. They do less Entertainment & More studying.
Then, come 18, they get into HARVARD, YALE, UPENN while the american kid across the street WHO SPENT LOTS of time playing baseball, watching american Idol, hanging in the Mall all his teen years- ENDS UP in Morris County Community College or WORSE- NEVER GOES TO COLLEGE & starts some manual job .
Now tell me, in 15 to 20 years, Who will Very Likely become Well-off, affluent Wealthy????
Folks, Stop the excuses !!!! Stop the Justification!!!!
I'm Irish/ Italian but I got to tell you.
Jews were denied admission to IVY league schools for many years. Jews were denied admission to Top medical schools for years. jews were denied admission to Top Law schools for decades.
What did they do??? Did they cry or did they WORK THEIR BUTTS off???
Who are the Very Best Lawyers, Accountants, Doctors, Investment Bankers, CEO's, Hollywood Producers, IVY Professors TODAY in AMERICA????
Successful people create their own luck! Successful people WORK VERY HARD but also work VERY SMART!!!!
Good luck to all of you ! Some of you need to really think about your views on Success & failure!!! Way Too many excuses!!!
There is nothing wrong with being poor, middle class. But there is something very wrong when you somehow portray a segment of society as EVIL just because they reached financial success in life. Wealthy people GIVE MORE, MUCH MUCH MORE aid to the poor than 99% of middle class people. Why??? Who can give millions but the millionaire!!! How can someone who is struggling himself give hundreds or thousands to others when he can barely take care of his own.
P.S. I have 35 people working for me. I COME IN FIRST EVERY DAY , I LEAVE LAST EVERY DAY!!!
Dont ever confuse Hard Work & Working Hard !!!!
A Black kid with a single mom would NOT be President TODAY if he did not work his butt of to study VERY HARD & oneday get to Columbia, Get to Harvard- become a Lawyer, and now President
A poor southern White kid with an alcoholic Step Father would HAVE NEVER EVER been accepted to Yale, Georgetown if HE DID NOT WORK VERY VERY HARD in school to get there. yes Bill clinton !!!