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Originally Posted by Mr.Retired
Opinion:
and when the parents fail the only answer is the Military where you are molded to the best that you can be.
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The only answer is not military.
Military breaks people down and literally brainwashes them ( these are words that came from recent people in my grouping ). Many people who do serve in the military do not carry weapons. Positions that is not going to give anybody a million dollar house anytime soon. Positions that are not useful when looking for a regular job. Same could be said about college students who have miles of experience but lacks actually holding a position for six months or longer or the lingo in itself.
I have a cousin in the military. He graduated with journalism but the only reason why he joined is because he did not want to go back home with his mother sleeping with a guy who is not his father. They have him stationed in another nation ( because he learned that language skill ).
I have another cousin-in-law in the military. I ask what he was doing before that? He can not give me a clear answer. He makes a big salary but yet he is doubtful about his life and pretends it never happen at all. I feel him. His mother left my uncle and .............she is just selfish. Like my other cousin that is the only way out.
The majority of people I see returning from the military even if they are an officer class ( fancy suits and all ) do not have any real direction at all. I also see many who do not take advantage of programs and job placements targeted at military both young and old.
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The military does not make you the best of anything at all. You might be healthy and have money in your pockets but that is not going to give anybody directions for the road-map of life. The streets are lined with homeless military people.
If I joined the military right now I would probably become a serial killer when I came back home.
Their are good people in the military who do return and honestly many of them are broken inside returning home. Going through PTSD or having un-loyal girlfriends ( you have to turn your head for that one ) they burnt money on. I have ran into at least maybe one good example of a positive military outcome for a black man. However he is also a guy who works out ( before the military ) and was into whatever ( before the military ). The military only helped in his position making him the ideal candidate.
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Anybody who says "Military is ultimate answer" has got to have no life at all. Nothing up their ticking. I am not saying not to join the military. I am saying "That is not where the story ends or begins"
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If any minority ( from any grouping ) joins the military they should disown their family, change their name and strategically associate with them ( their families ). It is a slap in the face to all knowledge and ability if you keep gambling "military will save you" mentality.
I have an uncle who was in the military but he is what is called a career convict. He was an ex-sportsman, ex-lawyer, What saves him is that his mother is too blind to see that her son is wrong and do not want fight their own brother ( because it is your family member. That is the only that saved him is a defenseless woman.