Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > U.S. Forums > New York > New York City
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 07-28-2018, 01:33 PM
 
Location: New York, NY
12,789 posts, read 8,293,232 times
Reputation: 7107

Advertisements

I recall back in the day, you tipped for table service, not counter service. Now you can't go anywhere without a tip jar being around or the tip essentially being expected just for taking an order. I ordered a cortado a little while ago from Joe Coffee. The cashier was nice and pleasant, but seemed to be that way so that people would tip her. I found it off putting because being courteous should be expected. When I have a customer that I'm taking care of I'm always courteous and certainly don't expect anything for essentially doing my job. Discuss...
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 07-28-2018, 01:39 PM
 
779 posts, read 1,004,035 times
Reputation: 834
It’s only considered out of control if the costumer is cheap.

From what I see, only people who worked a job that involved tip, understand the importance of it.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 01:47 PM
 
Location: New York, NY
12,789 posts, read 8,293,232 times
Reputation: 7107
Quote:
Originally Posted by NycLaidBack View Post
It’s only considered out of control if the costumer is cheap.

From what I see, only people who worked a job that involved tip, understand the importance of it.
I always understood tipping to be done for table service, NOT counter service. That's my point. This has nothing to do with frugality because I DO tip and tip at least 20%.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 01:56 PM
 
7,759 posts, read 3,885,749 times
Reputation: 8856
No tip for the counter.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 02:03 PM
 
Location: New York, NY
12,789 posts, read 8,293,232 times
Reputation: 7107
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tencent View Post
No tip for the counter.
That's what I thought, but now I find myself tipping more and more for counter service. I think counter service shouldn't be a given in terms of tipping. You're just taking an order. Table service is another matter entirely. Now there are some baristas that I get regularly that I develop a relationship with where they also make my coffee so I will tip because I already know that they make my drinks the way I like them and go above and beyond to do so, but I have a problem with tipping for something I haven't even received yet. If I tip and the drink sucks then I just tipped for counter service.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 02:03 PM
 
Location: new yawk zoo
8,695 posts, read 11,081,311 times
Reputation: 6380
Tipping should be outlawed; it’s out of control
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 02:14 PM
 
Location: ATL via ROC
1,214 posts, read 2,325,238 times
Reputation: 2578
Absolutely. There are many take out establishments that all but force you to tip. Over the past few years I've noticed it usually goes like this.

1. You place your order
2. You hand the cashier your card
3. They swipe your card and swivel around their iPad
4. You're presented with a tip screen

Usually it's the square app, but some have different software that prevents you from selecting "no tip." Rather, you have to make a custom tip and set the amount to $0.00 otherwise you'll have no choice but to pay more. I tip for excellent service and even sub-par service if I'm sitting in, but the culture is definitely getting insane.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Harlem, NY
7,906 posts, read 7,888,702 times
Reputation: 4152
U don’t have to tip the counter
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Honolulu/DMV Area/NYC
30,638 posts, read 18,227,675 times
Reputation: 34509
Quote:
Originally Posted by pierrepont7731 View Post
I always understood tipping to be done for table service, NOT counter service. That's my point. This has nothing to do with frugality because I DO tip and tip at least 20%.
I agree. I refuse to tip for counter service, if by counter service you mean pure takeout. If I'm eating at the counter, I'll leave a tip. Note, I refuse to tip for taxi service, too.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-28-2018, 03:01 PM
 
Location: New York, NY
3,672 posts, read 2,751,519 times
Reputation: 4639
I alway tip bar and table service 20%+ unless they suck. I only give counter service a tip at coffee places where I also order a sandwich and sit at a table to work. If I’m ordering a drip coffee or a sandwich to go. No tip.

Well, maybe if the girl at the counter is hot... here’s a buck, sexy!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:




Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > U.S. Forums > New York > New York City
View detailed profiles of:

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 11:10 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top