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Old 06-16-2011, 08:54 AM
 
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At my sister's bday party at a bar, met a couple of cool chicks who were friends. Talked very in depth with one, realized we both enjoyed the same "night life area", exchanged numbers and planned to meet up in that area.

A few weeks ago, met up with her and her group of girls at a bar, drank and socialized a bit, then went home.

Last week, met up with them again at a bar. Spent a longer time with them, drank and had a fun time.

Towards the end of the night, one of the girls asked me "what's your deal? Are you a playboy? Don't just use her..." etc etc, because she was drunk.

I have not made any intention of pursuing this girl, because... I have a girlfriend and only want to meet new friends! Somehow her and her friends think I am going for her. If any females have advice, much appreciated.

 
Old 06-16-2011, 08:58 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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If your current GF simply won't do a threesome, stop wasting your time.
 
Old 06-16-2011, 09:02 AM
 
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You cannot have girls as friends.
 
Old 06-16-2011, 09:05 AM
 
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I find it odd, (almost think there is an alteriour motive) that you've met up with these girls more than once when you have a girlfriend....where is she???
 
Old 06-16-2011, 09:19 AM
 
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I find it odd, (almost think there is an alteriour motive) that you've met up with these girls more than once when you have a girlfriend....where is she???
First time I was out with my male friends. It was the end of the night, and they were supposed to come with me, but flaked at the last minute so I went by myself. My girlfriend was out with some of her friends.

Last week my gf was away on vacation.
 
Old 06-16-2011, 09:31 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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First time I was out with my male friends. It was the end of the night, and they were supposed to come with me, but flaked at the last minute so I went by myself. My girlfriend was out with some of her friends.

Last week my gf was away on vacation.

hahhahahahha
 
Old 06-16-2011, 09:38 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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Lol, dude...this isn't our first rodeo....
 
Old 06-16-2011, 09:49 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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If a girl thinks you are going for her and you only want to be friends, stop trying to be her friend. She sees more than is there, and so do her friends. They might be wrong, but this girl is either not going to believe you, or she is not going to be flattered by the "No, no, no, you've got it all wrong, I just want to be friends" speech. Guys don't like that, right? Neither do girls.
 
Old 06-16-2011, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I have not made any intention of pursuing this girl, because... I have a girlfriend and only want to meet new friends! Somehow her and her friends think I am going for her. If any females have advice, much appreciated.
This entire story is a little lame, and hard to swallow. Given the benefit of the doubt though, offer to take your GF out with your "new girlfriends."

That would go over like a fart in a whirlwind, I`m sure~
 
Old 06-16-2011, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Columbus, GA
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You cannot have girls as friends.
Really because I do. In fact most of my friends are girls.
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