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Old 04-05-2012, 11:44 AM
 
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What an a-hole. Why does he feel so free to make comments like this in the first place? Do not allow it any longer!
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Old 04-05-2012, 11:50 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Hmm, I wonder if the straight guys on here that go ballistic about a womans weight are really closeted Gay men. Never thought of that one.
Nah. Its the "size 0" comment that gave it away that the guy is probably gay. How many straight dudes do you know who comment to women on the actual size of the clothes they wear (i.e., "Are you a size 2?" or "OMG I think this in a size P would look good on you"). Guys just dont care what number or letter is on a piece of clothing a woman wears.
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Old 04-05-2012, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Alaska
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Give him some back. Start commenting on his weight all the time. After a while, maybe he'll get the idea or will stop hanging around you.
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Old 04-05-2012, 11:57 AM
 
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Geeze Louise. If this is all you have to worry about you should either consider yourself very fortunate or get a life.
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Old 04-05-2012, 11:58 AM
 
Location: USA
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Nah. Its the "size 0" comment that gave it away that the guy is probably gay. How many straight dudes do you know who comment to women on the actual size of the clothes they wear (i.e., "Are you a size 2?" or "OMG I think this in a size P would look good on you"). Guys just dont care what number or letter is on a piece of clothing a woman wears.
True, hence my statement. As a matter of fact the few guys that I know who like the size 0 look seem to not mind breastless woman or women that look like boys
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Old 04-05-2012, 11:59 AM
 
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As a guy, I'm not stupid enough to comment on womans sizes (though I do know a girl who is a size 0...she's a tad on the skinny side, not even remotely heavy). That said, go get yourself a nice cast iron frying pan, preferably with a good grip, and clock him with it. Possibly even twice.
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Old 04-05-2012, 12:01 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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He's gotten pretty nasty about it though this is how he has always been in regards to my weight. I'm pretty small- a size 0 or 1 at the biggest but he insists I am a size 2 and have an "average" body fat % above 25% when in reality I maintain a % that is clearly under 25% considering I have 23-24 inch waist and my thighs don't touch.
Any insights about why this man is such an a-hole to me? He brings my weight up constantly, claiming that I am "heavy".
I'm guessing he likes to stoke the fire a bit.

If it bothers you that much, why are you "friends" with the guy?

And finally...have you ever called him on it?
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Old 04-05-2012, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Dump your "friend". Then celebrate by going out for a real meal. Including a hot fudge sundae.
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Old 04-05-2012, 01:34 PM
 
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You need to dump this guy fast. He's trying to manipulate, control and make you feel bad about yourself.

I thought this was going to be about someone 300 lbs. Not 90 to 100 lbs if that.

What has our society come to when people down others by their physical aspects but don't look in the mirror at themselves and they look worse? It's bullying and trying to make themselves feel and look better.

Our country is becoming a bunch of losers that can't even think for themselves.
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Old 04-05-2012, 01:37 PM
 
Location: southern california
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he is not into women he is into anorexia.
1 in 3 americans are obese u r not one of them.
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