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Originally Posted by Quick Thinker
How about this statement at Christmas:
"I know all of us have been seeing each other at Christmas for years but how is it working? I don't think it is! We are getting together due to tradition, not because we like each other or have any thing in common. No one has had the courage to bring this up and I guess I have to be the honest one. Lets strike it up to experience and spend Christmas in the future with people we all enjoy. OK?"
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Jeez, no wonder people walk out on you in mid-sentence. "not because we like each other"? "spend Christmas...with people we all enjoy"? Certainly not the most tactful way to approach it.
Why not just send a Christmas card that says, "Greetings from the Thinkers...we'll be traveling this Christmas and will have to forego our usual get-together with you. The added expense of driving 300 miles and having to eat an over-priced meal at Shoney's means we won't have the wherewithal to buy our usual hundreds-of-dollars gifts, so this is as good a time as any to end this tradition. Best wishes."