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Old 08-21-2015, 12:36 PM
 
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WTH does any of this have to do with being perceived as a lesbian?
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Old 08-21-2015, 01:32 PM
 
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Now you know why you haven't been invited to weddings and parties hosted by church members, as you've posted in the past. Isn't that a good thing? You can confront the gossipers directly.

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Old 08-21-2015, 01:34 PM
 
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Were you suggesting "traditionally lesbian sexual acts" as a group activity? If not, I'm not seeing why anyone would assume out of the blue that you're a lesbian.
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Old 08-21-2015, 02:05 PM
 
Location: Twin Cities
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Good grief. Does someone actually think these BS stories are real?
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Old 08-21-2015, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Baja Virginia
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This is because they asked to switch rooms the second night at a hotel (new hotel) am so upset, I went on this church trip and it seemed like the whole time I was there people were trying to avoid me and exclude me. They moved when I would sit next to them or they would choose other spots over the one next to me. They also took pictures and tried to move their heads to block me out of the picture and when I saw a picture on FB of a group of people sitting eating lunch and I had been cut off except for my hand. Like they cut me out of the picture. Also I was in a room one night with one group of people but then because of a room mixup where we were double booked in our hotel, we had to switch rooms around. I was the only one out of my room asked to go to another room. Why me?? Do they think Im a lesbian? How on earth would I go about finding out if they think this?
Find a new church?
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Old 08-21-2015, 02:09 PM
 
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Well, are you one?
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Old 08-21-2015, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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First of all this behavior needs to be observed by a chaperone . Then if I were the chaperone I would load these little geeks into the car or bus and take their little butts back to church ,call their parents and dump them off then later meet with the parents to council them as to their kids behavior.
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Old 08-21-2015, 04:43 PM
 
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Shave & a haircut might work wonders.
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Old 08-21-2015, 04:51 PM
 
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WTH does any of this have to do with being perceived as a lesbian?
I may have unknowingly done something that first night in the hotel to make them think Im a lesbian. If they think this, they would be uncomfortable continuing to share a hotel room with me.
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Old 08-21-2015, 05:03 PM
 
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Any reason why you haven't tried finding out directly?
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