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This behavior will get worse. Ex husband was same way. He would tell you he was going to hardware store and would be back soon. Soon to him could be 3-4 hrs. Ask him other times where were you his comment Out. I knew all this before we married but love would change him. It doesn't. He was inconsiderate the entire time we were married. Life was all about him. No time for me,too busy for the kids. No family life. Determined to get the kids to age, paid off all my personal debt and then sued for divorce. Don't let your relationship lead into marriage as you will be seeking a shrink and attorney down the road.
Well OP I am quiet not sure why you are mad in the first place. I think it is much better you talk to him than asking from strangers. That make you more exhausted. Sometimes things will turn out for better or worst after talking directly. One of those two things can happen that is all. But in my view I am wasting my time on a man who is just acting like free bird no care.
It all depends on his definitions of 'friend' and 'relationship'. Although you talk almost everyday, he did not see the need to tell you about his going out of town. Why this was so is something only he can answer. Did he forget what time you go to bed or is there a time difference between where he is and where you are? If you want this relationship to move forward, you two will have to make sure that your definition of 'relationship' is similar.
Sometimes person A won't tell person B things ahead of time if they have reason to believe person B will try to talk them out of doing what person A wants to do (or person B will want to go along on a trip the person A would rather take alone). Sometimes they learn over time it's easier to just keep things to themselves and skip the 'discussion'. I'm sure that's not the case here though
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