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I got married at 23, 3 babies in 3 years, and I still had a social life and time for friends. If you can't be happy in your life now, you won't be happy when you have what you think you're dreaming of. If you're not happy by/with yourself, it's really hard to be happy with others (and that includes a husband and kids). Your future kids/husband deserve to have a woman who can make herself happy.
Concentrate on finishing your masters and forget about stray comments by people who will most likely drift away from your circle after you land a job and move one.
Quit worrying about finding guys (I'm assuming you're female) they will find you...and then use your head and kick 99 percent of them to the curb.
And yes, I agree with all the other posters who say that the type of emotions you are having are very immature. You need to talk to someone in the professional field who can guide you, imho.
Do not compare your self with your other friends or any one. Getting married or graduating is not a race. Be happy that you have all the freedom to do your masters and go on your way freely. I was early married I have done my studies with my kid and a husband so it is not an easy task to fulfill as you think. If you think you are obsessed seek help before it get worst.
I don't not talk to her, I just don't engage her in conversation, especially if she is talking about her pregnancy... which happens a lot. It is how I protect myself and thats what is important. I am obsessed with marriage and babies in an unhealthy way and that probably won't change until I am married and have babies.
Have you considered counseling? If you're in school you can probably get it for free or very low cost. You are aware that your obsession is not healthy. Please consider getting some help with this.
No I think once I have a husband and babies I'll be good and content
No,you will not. I fear for your husband and kids should you have them. Your husband and those poor kids will be born with a job! The job of making your life complete. No one can do that for you! Please, get some professional health. You shouldn't have to live like this and it's not fair to any man who may get close to you. Although that's very unlikely because your obsession and desperation will drive him away.
I go to therapy, but realistically think about it.. as a wife and new mom how much time do you have for friends? I will likely be totally busy taking care of my family to have friends. My mom never had many friends, my dad is her best friend and who she spends her time with, or she is alone.
Everyone mom has friends! That's just sad that your mother never had any friends. I don't know any mothers like that and it's sad to think about someone living like that. I've had a husband and kids for 30 years and ALWAYS had friends. Always. No one person can meet all your needs, nor should he be expected to. Frankly, I think you are punking us. Are you a troll? Your story is just too far fetched to be real.
I go to therapy, but realistically think about it.. as a wife and new mom how much time do you have for friends? I will likely be totally busy taking care of my family to have friends. My mom never had many friends, my dad is her best friend and who she spends her time with, or she is alone.
Everyone mom has friends! That's just sad that your mother never had any friends. I don't know any mothers like that and it's sad to think about someone living like that. I've had a husband and kids for 30 years and ALWAYS had friends. Always. No one person can meet all your needs, nor should he be expected to. Frankly, I think you are punking us. Are you a troll? Your story is just too far fetched to be real. No one expects a husband and kids to fill their whole life.
Everyone mom has friends! That's just sad that your mother never had any friends. I don't know any mothers like that and it's sad to think about someone living like that. I've had a husband and kids for 30 years and ALWAYS had friends. Always. No one person can meet all your needs, nor should he be expected to. Frankly, I think you are punking us. Are you a troll? Your story is just too far fetched to be real.
Nope I'm real. My mom and dad moved when they got married and just kind of relied on eachother they don't do date nights with other people they both have acquaintances but are very private people
No,you will not. I fear for your husband and kids should you have them. Your husband and those poor kids will be born with a job! The job of making your life complete. No one can do that for you! Please, get some professional health. You shouldn't have to live like this and it's not fair to any man who may get close to you. Although that's very unlikely because your obsession and desperation will drive him away.
I am not going and telling men on the first date to get me pregnant but at 25 come on I'm ready I have accomplished everything in life already except that
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