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Old 01-17-2017, 07:16 PM
 
Location: USA
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I've gone to school with and worked with moochers. I found if I just say "No, can't help ya" a couple times they go freeload off someone else.

Whether it's 25 cents, $1, Kleenex. hand lotion, gum, whatever - it's MOOCHING. There's something called self-sufficiency and some people need to become familiar with it.

I never was a moocher/beggar so I never had to worry about paying someone back. If I was 10 cents short at the vending machine, I did without. If someone insisted on putting in 10 cents for me, I paid them back immediately. But the choice was theirs - I didn't ask.
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Old 01-17-2017, 09:16 PM
 
Location: WMHT
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I never give anybody cash. I've bought a homless guy a burrito, and I've given away beer, easter peeps, cold pizza, and once gave away a used car to a member of a co-op I was in.

And I gave a guy like this a small bottle of tequila.


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Could this be a new Internet scam, as in someone hacked the OP's friend's email account? Like in the olden days when we got those "you'll never believe what happened I am on London and one one stole my passport credit cards an plane tickets, so please wire me $$$$"?
That's a common scam, modern version usually involves text/chat/email. OP wrote "I get a call the other night from a co-worker/sometime hangout buddy while I was at home".

Sounds like a phone call from somebody who would know the mooch's voice and speech mannerisms, not easily spoofed?
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:19 AM
 
Location: USA
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Exactly, Nonesuch.

Something is "off".
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:31 AM
 
Location: 415->916->602
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im glad that you didn't do it but think about this: You were about to give someone money who throws people under the bus and alot of people don't trust her; yet, you were this close to give her money.

How does she still have a job?
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Old 01-18-2017, 05:27 PM
 
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I made the mistake of lending $1 to a co-worker so she could get a snack. This was maybe eight months ago. No payback. Of course, she hasn't asked again.

Never again, not even a dollar.
That's such a small amount that it's possible he or she forgot. Possible?
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Old 01-23-2017, 08:06 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Possible, I don't really care. Just sort of irks me. A dollar is a dollar. My mistake to loan it to her.
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