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Old 11-27-2019, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Yes, a hood rat is not fancy or am I am totally off?


I'd be taking boxing lessons if I get called those names.
Yep, country bumpkin, hood rat, and fancy are 3 very separate and distinct things. Complete opposites!

 
Old 11-27-2019, 09:34 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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I guess someone should tell you, because eventually it is going to be a big disappointment in your life when you find out.


Very very few people are so important that anyone notices much about them at all. You've posted a few times on a forum with strangers and it is actually bizarre that you think that people who don't know you have actually formed an opinion about who you are or care where you are from.


The world is simply not turning around you to the point where you are important to strangers. Many people just read the notes without even noticing who has written them.


So my only advice is that you find new friends if the ones you have are putting you down and damaging your self esteem.
 
Old 11-27-2019, 12:27 PM
 
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Can you give us a few more hints and pointers?

Judging by your pics you are either smoking something or eccentric - why would you post a ceiling fan and the back of a (your?) head? That makes zero sense.

Yeah, eccentric, I suppose. But to answer further, there were actual questions that went along with those posts.


Oh wait, almost forgot. Poor people can't be eccentric, so guess that means I'm just crazy.

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Old 11-27-2019, 12:28 PM
 
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Yep, country bumpkin, hood rat, and fancy are 3 very separate and distinct things. Complete opposites!

That's why I am conflicted. I am all three.
 
Old 11-27-2019, 12:31 PM
 
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IMHO, that response was not hateful. They merely were pointing out that it really doesn't matter where you are from geographically, people are all the same.

The manner of answer was snide. My question did not ask anything about whether people are the same or not, it asked to give a best guess where I'm from.
 
Old 11-27-2019, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Yes, a hood rat is not fancy or am I am totally off?


I'd be taking boxing lessons if I get called those names.
I’d be giving some.
 
Old 11-27-2019, 01:18 PM
 
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So you'd like me to take the time to read through your 1,149 posts and try to guess where you are from? I don't think so. Why would I?
 
Old 11-27-2019, 01:21 PM
 
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I have no idea how or why I came here but I'll take a shot: Fancy A$$ Country Hood Rat™ (Trademarked because I may keep it).
 
Old 11-27-2019, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Canada
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If anyone has read any other of my posts here on CD, where would you guess I belong and what type person would you say I am?

I've read a good number of your posts. So I'm going to be totally honest with you since you insist on asking this question.

As to the type of person you are I'm 100% positive that you are a mid-50's autistic person with a persecution and malcontentment complex instilled into you which you don't know how to overcome, and that you reflect your grudge onto other people in your environment and in turn that gets reflected right back at you by those people. You refuse to accept a lot of the good advice that you get from other people who genuinely care about you and they eventually give up on you.

As to where you're from or where you belong given your circumstances - you are in America and that's the right place for you to be because there are more support systems available in America for people on the autism spectrum than there are in most other first world countries. Besides which, you can't afford and don't have the required qualifications you would need to immigrate to any other countries that have better support systems anyway, so you should try to make the most of whatever support and counselling systems there are for autistic people that you can avail yourself of in America.

You should get a spectrum assessment done on yourself to start with, the assessment results will help to point you in the right directions for most appropriate support and counseling systems.
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Old 11-27-2019, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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I've read a good number of your posts. So I'm going to be totally honest with you since you insist on asking this question.

As to the type of person you are I'm 100% positive that you are a mid-50's autistic person with a persecution and malcontentment complex instilled into you which you don't know how to overcome, and that you reflect your grudge onto other people in your environment and in turn that gets reflected right back at you by those people. You refuse to accept a lot of the good advice that you get from other people who genuinely care about you and they eventually give up on you.

As to where you're from or where you belong given your circumstances - you are in America and that's the right place for you to be because there are more support systems available in America for people on the autism spectrum than there are in most other first world countries. Besides which, you can't afford and don't have the required qualifications you would need to immigrate to any other countries that have better support systems anyway, so you should try to make the most of whatever support and counselling systems there are for autistic people that you can avail yourself of in America.

You should get a spectrum assessment done on yourself to start with, the assessment results will help to point you in the right directions for most appropriate support and counseling systems.
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Dang! After that diagnosis... you should send her a bill!
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