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Originally Posted by Murk
I think it's important (and tough) to let go of the whole "should" thing. There really are no rules about how you're supposed to spend or enjoy the holidays -- or ignore them completely. Of course, there can be family/friend pressure, but it's a good opportunity to practice those boundary skills.
Do what you want to do. If you want traditions, make some you enjoy.
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Makes me think of Dr Wayne Dwyer and some of his books. He talks about the "shoulds" in life, like I should give gifts, I should put up decorations, etc. You might try looking him up on amazon---good reading!
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