*OK this may be a vent more than anything else so be warned*
So I was in between houses for about 2 weeks waiting on my new house to be ready to be moved into. In that time my bf and I were staying with his mom. My washer and dryer and my bedroom suite was in my moms garage because we thought it would be easier since she only stays about a quarter mile from my new house.
Ok so to the drama. We moved into the new house friday the first. My mom knew this was the date ever since the stuff was put in her garage. I called her Saturday and said I just wanna make sure your home because we're going to come get the stuff. So she flips out and was like no your not doing it on your time your gonna do it on mine. Cane (my moms rather large mean dog) is in the backyard and Billy (moms husband) is about to leave so there is no one to control him. So I ask her can they tie him to a tree or something because this is the only time we are gonna have a truck to move the stuff. And she says no. I ask her when she is gonna allow me to get it and she says next weekend!
WTH? So what am I supposed to do in the mean time? Sleep on the floor? Im 6 months pregnant!
So I drive over there and knock on the door. She comes to the door and I step inside and say im not leaving until I get my stuff. She starts screaming at me telling me to leave. So here comes her husband. He runs upstairs and doesnt say anything just grab me in a bear hug type of grab around my stomach and starts carrying me outside. The way hes grabbing me around the stomach hurts so I start screaming at him to get off of me. He throws me on the ground and goes inside.
This next part I'll admit I was in the wrong but I was SO MAD at this point. I pick up a lawn chair and hit the front window with it. It doesnt break or anything but I guess this upsets him enough for him to come outside. When he comes out he says "Ima lay you out on this ground" So my best friend who stay 2 houses down from my moms house hears me and walks down there. When I see her I tell her to call the police cus he put his hands on me.
So she just walks up there and he repeats himself, "Ima lay you out" and I look at him and say "If you touch me again i'll be sure T (My bf) will make you regret the day you were born". So he comes up to me and says oh yeah and right hooks me. I am serious you guys. This 50 yr old man hits a 20 year old pregnant girl like im a man.
So my bestfriend runs up to him and yells whats wrong with you? Shes pregnant! So he proceeds to starts hitting her. Shes fighting back but obviously come on shes gonna lose. So I run up behind him and grab his arm to get him off of her. He turns around and hits me in my stomach!
So at this point I scream for someone to call the police.
He goes back into the house and im crying so hard at this point and just scream your going to jail! So we call the police and theyre on the way. He realizes hes gonna go to jail so he leaves and starts walkng down the street. The police get there at the same time the ambulance gets there so I go to the medic first to make sure that my baby is ok. All I hear is my mom crying and saying she hit him first.
WHAT???
So I tell the police my side and of course they issue a warrant for his arrest with 2 counts of felonious (sp?) assault. He's a convicted 6 time felon so hes gonna do time.
Point of the story is MY MOM IS MAD AT ME! Wth?? Regardless of what I did YOU DONT HIT A WOMAN. Much less one thats pregnant in her stomach.
I had to go to the hospital because I was having contractions but thank god they stopped them and the baby is fine. But im so heartbroken how could my mom take his side? Im her only daughter and this is her first grandbaby.
Do you think she'll get over it and IF she does should I even forgeive her?
Sorry this was so long.
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