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Originally Posted by FinsterRufus
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Do you have any experience with being a parent after overcoming abuse and related family problems and depression?
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abuse? Depends on the definition.
family problems? Well we certainly had a dysfunctional family. We (siblings) beat, cut, burned and hospitalized each other at times. I just thought that was normally until I got out in the world a bit more.
depression? not sure I recognize it. My siblings at times suffer from debilitating depression. Sometimes I have had similar symptoms, but it is hard to distinguish form just being tired, hung over or feeling low. Anxiety attacks i can recognize, but I am able to shove those away when they come (some of my siblings have to take meds for anxiety).
However I am not sure what any of that has to do with children.
The idea that having children is a cure for depression or mental illness is absurd. The idea that someone suffering from severe depression or mental illness should have children to make themselves feel better or get their head together seems like an incredibly bad idea to me. If anyhting it may be a reason not to have children, but if you can control it, there is not really any reason it should keep you from having kids.