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Old 08-31-2009, 09:57 PM
 
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Where do you live that it is that cheep??? The ride from the nursing home to the funeral home alone was $375. The cremation, just the actual cremation, was $1000.
My Mom passed at home in Florida in December. She was in hospice care so we at least had time to set up her arrangements in advance. Cost of cremation (including coming to the house to pickup her remains) was just over $1,800.00. Yes, its less expensive than a casket, etc but it definately is NOT cheap!
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Old 08-31-2009, 10:14 PM
 
Location: 23.7 million to 162 million miles North of Venus
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Half of my parental unit has heavily-mortgaged "assets" and I was worried about the same issues. I just have one question about the life insurance. Does that count as part of the "estate?"
No it does not count as part of the estate. Insurance cannot be touched for their debts, unless the beneficiary decides, on their own, to go ahead and use it to pay.
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Old 08-31-2009, 10:38 PM
 
Location: 23.7 million to 162 million miles North of Venus
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Where do you live that it is that cheep??? The ride from the nursing home to the funeral home alone was $375. The cremation, just the actual cremation, was $1000.
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My Mom passed at home in Florida in December. She was in hospice care so we at least had time to set up her arrangements in advance. Cost of cremation (including coming to the house to pickup her remains) was just over $1,800.00. Yes, its less expensive than a casket, etc but it definately is NOT cheap!
The cost for my dad ran somewhere around $1700 to $1800 for transporting to two funeral homes, embalming (since the funeral home with the crematorium was over the state line), the cremation and a small service. We knew that they would try to add things that were unnecessary, so we made sure that they knew we weren't going to fall for their sales pitches.

I did a little Google search and ran across a site that gives the ranges in prices. Of course prices may vary depending on where one lives, but it seems like the prices are fairly average.

I'm not advertising the site if the site is trying to sell anything, I'm posting it for cost information purposes only.
Funeral Home, Cemetery, Cremation; Cost Controls
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Old 08-31-2009, 11:44 PM
 
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I couldn't believe the cremation was that expensive - damn hidden costs!

If either parent dies, I'm haulin' their corpse in my pickup to save money!
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Old 09-01-2009, 07:58 AM
 
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^^ Ha. I made sure that when my dad remarried, he married a younger woman who happens to be a nurse. There's one problem scratched off the list.
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Old 09-01-2009, 03:54 PM
 
Location: Land of Free Johnson-Weld-2016
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No it does not count as part of the estate. Insurance cannot be touched for their debts, unless the beneficiary decides, on their own, to go ahead and use it to pay.
Whew!
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Old 09-02-2009, 04:33 PM
 
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If there is no surviving spouse, the payment is made to a child who is eligible for benefits on the deceased's record in the month of death.
Meaning the child is a minor, or disabled and as such qualifies for benefits themselves.

For 99%+ of us you won't collect even the paltry sum of $225.

If the deceased does not qualify for Social Security as they don't have enough work history, and there are a lot of women in their 70's and 80's that never worked, or worked enough to qualify for SS, then the surviving spouse cannot collect the $225 death benefit.
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Old 09-02-2009, 04:47 PM
 
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If a debt collector actually threatens you over debts owed by a deceased parent, you can sue under the FDCPA, and probably collect a $1,000 judgment in a small claims court, if you can document the threat via an audio recording.
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Old 09-02-2009, 05:12 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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No it does not count as part of the estate. Insurance cannot be touched for their debts, unless the beneficiary decides, on their own, to go ahead and use it to pay.
And anyone who chooses to do so is making a horrible decision.
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Old 09-02-2009, 05:37 PM
 
Location: 23.7 million to 162 million miles North of Venus
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And anyone who chooses to do so is making a horrible decision.
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