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View Poll Results: Pedophilia should be considered a sexual orientation like homosexuality and heterosexuality
Yes, it is a sexual orientation 6 8.22%
No, it is an abnormal sexual behavior 59 80.82%
I don't know if it's an abnormal sexual behavior or sexual orientation 8 10.96%
Voters: 73. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-15-2013, 02:13 PM
 
Location: Mississippi
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I don't think it matters whether it's a sexual orientation or an aberration. If it turns out some people are born attracted to kids...so what? That doesn't mean the behavior must be deemed acceptable or exempt from punishment just because it has a genetic basis. We don't have to freak out when studies are done on this sort of thing. Children simply cannot consent to sex. Nonconsentual sex is and will remain illegal.
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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From my reading, I got that they are trying to make pedophilia (the attraction) less stigmatized so more people will go get help before they commit pedophilia (the action) and harm a child.

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"You are not guilty because of your sexual desire, but you are responsible for your sexual behavior," said billboards urging them to contact the Institute of Sexology and Sexual Medicine in Berlin. "There is help! Don't become an offender!"

There have been some grass-roots efforts to bring pedophilia out of the shadows. Anton Schweighofer, a psychologist in British Columbia, said he recently referred one of his patients to Virtuous Pedophiles, an online support group for men who have never acted on their desires and want to keep it that way.
I think it is a good thing to encourage people to get help, instead of forcing them to hide.
Of course, those who have actually molested a child should be locked up forever at the very least.
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Mississippi
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Reality isn't necessarily made to be comforting. It honestly doesn't matter what we define it as but scientists are going to research the matter in a fashion that nets them the most information with the most accurate results. If it is indeed a sexual orientation then that changes absolutely nothing, now does it? If labeling it a "sexual orientation" helps even one pedophile get a better understanding of his attraction to young children and thereby not acting on his impulses then, in my opinion, you could call it whatever you want.

I honestly don't think there's anyone commenting on this (myself included) who understand the issue, who know the science, or know the details behind all of it. So, umm... If we disagree, we're doing so from an ignorant point of view anyway.
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:29 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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I honestly don't think there's anyone commenting on this (myself included) who understand the issue, who know the science, or know the details behind all of it. So, umm... If we disagree, we're doing so from an ignorant point of view anyway.
I don't need to be an expert to have an opinion.

Pre-1950's science didn't believe smoking cigarettes was unhealthy.

That's miles away from what we know today.
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:32 PM
 
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From my reading, I got that they are trying to make pedophilia (the attraction) less stigmatized so more people will go get help before they commit pedophilia (the action) and harm a child.



I think it is a good thing to encourage people to get help, instead of forcing them to hide.
Of course, those who have actually molested a child should be locked up forever at the very least.
Pedophilia Anonymous?
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Pedophilia Anonymous?
The article mentions a group that is a support group for pedophiles. If you keep them in the shadows, they won't get help.
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Barrington
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And if they act on that "attraction" or can't "help" themselves in anyway, they need to be retired from life
I have no problem with this.
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Currently I physically reside on the 3rd planet from the sun
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Yes it is a sexual orientation.
Yes it is an abnormal sexual behavior
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Old 01-15-2013, 02:38 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Yes it is a sexual orientation.
Yes it is an abnormal sexual behavior
I don't understand how it could be a sexual orientation.

We could argue any and every sexual proclivity is an orientation if pedophilia is a sexual orientation.
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Old 01-15-2013, 03:00 PM
 
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WTF!!! WTF!!! WTF!!! WTF!!! WTF!!! And so should it be respected and encouraged?
Who said that???
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