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Originally Posted by Joe90
Very few people would be happy finding out that that someone has intentionally sought to undermine their sexual identity, and then been tricked into sexual activity they would never approve of.
I suspect your position comes primarily from resentment towards those who don't accept transgenders for who they believe they are - you're really just high fiving transgenders who score a home run against an unwitting partner, rather than supporting the right of all individuals not to have their sexuality undermined by deception.
This is rape culture.
oh for god's sake
My resentment comes from this self-important overblown (literally) jackass who thinks some woman will pay to give him oral, and his ego is so fragile that he stomps the man to death while his friends are there. To save "face". But that's only after he turns on his cell phone to get a better look at his sex partner - they had never met face to face - that he realizes this partner is a man.
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Clara and I are most always on opposite ends of the spectrum but I totally agree with her this time. We'll next see him arrested in 10 yrs for beating up a woman who doesn't give him what he wants.
Very few people would be happy finding out that that someone has intentionally sought to undermine their sexual identity, and then been tricked into sexual activity they would never approve of.
I suspect your position comes primarily from resentment towards those who don't accept transgenders for who they believe they are - you're really just high fiving transgenders who score a home run against an unwitting partner, rather than supporting the right of all individuals not to have their sexuality undermined by deception.
This is rape culture.
This.this.this.this is why you get called transphobic. There is no evidence that the dead guy is transgendered. Yet, here you are.
My resentment comes from this self-important overblown (literally) jackass who thinks some woman will pay to give him oral, and his ego is so fragile that he stomps the man to death while his friends are there. To save "face". But that's only after he turns on his cell phone to get a better look at his sex partner - they had never met face to face - that he realizes this partner is a man.
And he's not transgender.
This case does seem atypical
This sort of thing does happen to completely unwitting people, and I suspect quite often.
But this is a matter of deception - if you're cool with people using deception to pray on those with different sexual preference, then you're cool with a neighbour screwing your mother by donning a good disguise and pretending to be your father?
I'm torn. On the one hand, someone can say that one is agreeing to engage in the act of sex, period. Others will say that one agreed to engage with sex specifically with that person; but, even in this front, one did engage in sex with the person one was talking to, even if one didn't know all about this person. But that's a risk with the hookup culture where folks are out having sex with people they haven't built long, meaningful relationships with. Taken to its natural conclusion, I'm sure many omissions could lead to the allegation of rape (to include someone who had breast augmentation surgery, plastic surgery otherwise, or has hair transplants, which I think misses the picture.
The tech companies would disagree with you, each time you click “agree” on some terms of service. Ignorance is never an excuse to the law.
That is completely different situation than this and there have been many people who have received large settlements after they "agreed" to terms of a contract.
This.this.this.this is why you get called transphobic. There is no evidence that the dead guy is transgendered. Yet, here you are.
Sure, haven't read the article and don't know too much about the case - does seem like the defendant wasn't quite as ignorant as claimed.
This is a far bigger issue than just one incident though - I support the right of all individuals, of all sexualities, not to have their sexuality undermined by someone who uses a disguise to achieve their goals
Tell me - would you be cool with a neighbour screwing you mother, by donning a good disguise that fooled her into thinking he was your father?
Sure, haven't read the article and don't know too much about the case - does seem like the defendant wasn't quite as ignorant as claimed.
This is a far bigger issue than just one incident though - I support the right of all individuals, of all sexualities, not to have their sexuality undermined by someone who uses a disguise to achieve their goals
Tell me - would you be cool with a neighbour screwing you mother, by donning a good disguise that fooled her into thinking he was your father?
My mom wouldn't accept money for sex like your's so I can't process your analogy.
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