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Old 12-08-2013, 01:44 AM
 
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You are young and you just need to change your ill view of women. After that you are able to be happily attracted with your SO Hear what those women are saying who are in love with their husbands

 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:02 AM
 
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Become a monk and join a monastery.
Oh i can only wish. But my future goals does not allow me to be one.
 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:05 AM
 
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You are young and you just need to change your ill view of women. After that you are able to be happily attracted with your SO Hear what those women are saying who are in love with their husbands
Its very easy to say these things. " These beleives don't work in real life."
Everyone want to be in love like romeo and juliat but it only exist in books to fool people around.
 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:25 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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Oh i can only wish. But my future goals does not allow me to be one.
Career change? There are some really nice monasteries out there. Maybe some of them have wifi so you can still post here and update us? You'd have to get your head shaved though.
 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:29 AM
 
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I don't need therepy. I am perfectly ok and yes I am a collge student. So what ?

You are 18 years old, have the attitude you have and think you only need a way to not be attracted to women because of "everything" you have experienced in your very long life?

Alrighty then, when you get more life experience, more dating experience and mature you will understand not everyone is the way you percieve them to be at this time in your life.

SOME men and women have the traits you describe in your original post, the key is to avoid those people and move on to the people who are more compatable with you and your lifestyle.

However, if you want to give up on everything at the age of 18 it is your choice, just do not blame anyone but yourself in 5, 10, 20, 30 years when you are not happy, alone, lonely, and miserable because you have no one special in your life, which is YOUR current choice.
 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:40 AM
 
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You are 18 years old, have the attitude you have and think you only need a way to not be attracted to women because of "everything" you have experienced in your very long life?

Alrighty then, when you get more life experience, more dating experience and mature you will understand not everyone is the way you percieve them to be at this time in your life.

SOME men and women have the traits you describe in your original post, the key is to avoid those people and move on to the people who are more compatable with you and your lifestyle.

However, if you want to give up on everything at the age of 18 it is your choice, just do not blame anyone but yourself in 5, 10, 20, 30 years when you are not happy, alone, lonely, and miserable because you have no one special in your life, which is YOUR current choice.
Who knows how many days i even have in this life. So why should i care about my future and so called lonely life ?
But atleast i would never experience the heart aches, extreme overflow of emotions which love brings. I have seen how badly break up affect guys. I knew a guy who actually attempted suicide after his break up. I don't want to go there. Atleast there are people who actually love me. My parents, brother,sister in law, cousins etc and especially my friends. So i would never be alone in this life

I have someone very special in my life and that is my dear friend.

I just wanted to get rid of my feelings and attraction.
 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:43 AM
 
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Career change? There are some really nice monasteries out there. Maybe some of them have wifi so you can still post here and update us? You'd have to get your head shaved though.
My parents want to see me as an engineer so, No. Thanks for your wisdom though.
 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:50 AM
 
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Its very easy to say these things. " These beleives don't work in real life."
Everyone want to be in love like romeo and juliat but it only exist in books to fool people around.
There is lot of people in love after tens years of marriages if love is what interest you. Are you a romeo inside? Let it out and your juliet will catch you. If you are not romeo then it is hard to attract julia if that is what you are looking for.

You make a half of everything what comes to relationship, remember it always. If something does not work, take a look into your 50% and fix it for being full 50% with 100% genuine fuel. If you want love, make sure your fuel is 100% of love

What does your 50 % look at now? You are talking about romeo but instead talking like a romeo you are full of bitter fuel 100%. full of blaming women at 18 years old? If you want love, spread the love, man

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Old 12-08-2013, 02:50 AM
 
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My parents want to see me as an engineer so, No. Thanks for your wisdom though.
Is that not what you want though?
 
Old 12-08-2013, 02:56 AM
 
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Is that not what you want though?
It was their dream but later become my dream as well as i want to see their proud faces
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