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i loved what u say plus i have someone in my life, soon i will be engaged and he likes me but im just wondering about others opinion ( i can't ask this question except on the net) and bcz i dont feel satisfied and confidence
thanks for what u said
You're getting engaged, but you're not satisfied and lack confidence?? Wow.
If that's true, nothing will help you except therapy. And btw, your fiance would NOT be happy knowing you're discussing your body with strangers on the internet. Now we know why you haven't posted a pic.
its best he likes you for you, and not some shape of fruit..
if you want to do this to show him, you are trying to look sexier- then thats good of you,,,but being "sexy" is sometimes the little things that will make a man smile..(and it doesnt take much...men are like dogs,,,scratch our heads and we are smiling)
you cant define yourself thru the eyes of others, if he already said he finds you sexy, having confidence in yourself in sexy, take him by the hand and plan a dinner and some sexiness afterwards,,
your insecurities- as most of us, might be misplaced...let it go,,,life is too short... for too much stress..
How many pushups can you do? Can you walk 2 mi at a brisk pace without tiring? Can you swim?
It's normal for young women to obsess over their looks but if you're fit and healthy you look fine. At least from the healthy males perspective.
Cautionary tale: I remember reading an autobiography of a woman who said she wanted bigger breasts when she was young. She got the bigger breasts after a couple of kids. But she also lost her skinny figure and was overweight. Her final words of advice were, "Be careful what you wish for, you may get it."
Yes, most men like some hips. But your body type is what it is. It sounds like you're fit and healthy so dont worry about it and besides, physical beauty is only skin deep. The most attractive women are the ones that are not temperamental and are easy to get along with.
Yes, most men like some hips. But your body type is what it is. It sounds like you're fit and healthy so dont worry about it and besides, physical beauty is only skin deep. The most attractive women are the ones that are not temperamental and are easy to get along with.
hi,im considered as a banana shaped'' 35-28-38'' ,i have boobs and butt but i dont have hips or well definded waist,i dont feel satisfied of my self and i dont know if im attractive or not? most of the times i feel im not.
by the way my height is 163 cm, 59 kg.
I'm really sorry that you are so insecure you must ask this question, at all. And then on an anonymous forum to people you don't know. Can't you talk to a trusted friend? I recommend that you seek counseling and find out what's really going on. It's not about your looks. It's about whats eating you.
I will speak only for me -- personally -- but what attracts me MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE is what's between a woman's EARS.
Physical attraction/beauty does figure into it, of course, but I'm much more turned on by a woman who has intelligence, and social grace, and a POINT OF VIEW, and the courage (or what-have-you) to express these things, than I am by one who has all the right curves in all the right places, but nothing else.
I wouldn't recognize you even if I tripped over you, but based on what you've written, I think I could grow to like you...
QUICKLY!
-- Nighteyes (who has been married to the same, wonderfully intelligent/opinionated/argumentative woman for nearly 30 years)
Stop thinking about it, eat healthy, exercise enough to feel good, concentrate on being a good person with a good heart.
A good heart is the most attractive thing about a person and what's more is that they are actually rare enough to stand out.
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