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Look, a 5'4" 180 lb female is not even close to a "7" by definition. Even in today's hefty times.
It may not be to your taste, but look around: There are lots of overweight women who are married or who have partners. I knew this woman who ran around 300 pounds. She had long, gray hair, wore glasses and wore these big mumu dresses flat slipper-type shoes. I came to find out she had TWO husbands, or "spouses" as she referred to them, since what she had isn't legal in New York.
She'd been with one of them for 17 years and then she'd met the other one about 7 years later. They formed what they termed a committed triad. The men were not bisexual, but the three of them owned a house and lived together as a family, and as far as I know, they still do.
That's a very unusual situation, of course. But there are still lots of overweight women who date.
I don't know about "the guys that come here lamenting the fact that they can't 'get a female'", but if you are the son of a Hollywood Associate Director and can't manage to get laid, you must be a total loser.
I went on dates with one woman who was 6'5" and one who was 6'7".
I'm assuming you are shorter than that! Good on you for not being the sort of person who worries about what people think.
The woman who takes the blood at my doctor's office is 6'5". You can imagine it's weird for me to see a woman taller than I am--doesn't happen very often.
I've never known her to turn a guy down for a date. She did end a relationship with one who was too controlling and she should have ended that one. She just doesn't attract men. Period.
I don't know you or her, but I find it hard to believe that no man has ever been interested.
It may not be to your taste, but look around: There are lots of overweight women who are married or who have partners. I knew this woman who ran around 300 pounds. She had long, gray hair, wore glasses and wore these big mumu dresses flat slipper-type shoes. I came to find out she had TWO husbands, or "spouses" as she referred to them, since what she had isn't legal in New York.
She'd been with one of them for 17 years and then she'd met the other one about 7 years later. They formed what they termed a committed triad. The men were not bisexual, but the three of them owned a house and lived together as a family, and as far as I know, they still do.
That's a very unusual situation, of course. But there are still lots of overweight women who date.
That doesn't make her a 7. A woman who's a foot shorter than me and weighs the same is not a 7.
That's a bit of a hyperbole, isn't it? Are you saying that thugs and jerks are the only guys who are having sex or finding relationships? Yeah, there are damaged women who are attracted to damaged men (and vice versa,) but there are also many more regular average women who are married to and dating and sleeping with regular, average men.
This is where guys hanging out in the echo chambers of the internet lose. It's easier to whine online about being "Involuntarily celibate" rather than actually work on being the kind of guy a woman would be happy to be with. Or at least being the kind of man who lives a rich and full and happy life even if he's not getting laid on the regular.
I agree with most of what you said......but for a healthy male, the bolded is an oxymoron.
It may not be to your taste, but look around: There are lots of overweight women who are married or who have partners. I knew this woman who ran around 300 pounds. She had long, gray hair, wore glasses and wore these big mumu dresses flat slipper-type shoes. I came to find out she had TWO husbands, or "spouses" as she referred to them, since what she had isn't legal in New York.
She'd been with one of them for 17 years and then she'd met the other one about 7 years later. They formed what they termed a committed triad. The men were not bisexual, but the three of them owned a house and lived together as a family, and as far as I know, they still do.
That's a very unusual situation, of course. But there are still lots of overweight women who date.
Man or woman? Who is more likely to like someone who is "different" looking BUT become intimidated and give up because his/her family, friends, co-workers, neighbors wouldn't understand the attraction?
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