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I didn't ask for advice now did I? I asked you guys to judge my chances. Nothing more, nothing less.
Nobody can judge the chances . So what is the chance that Trump is Prez again? 50% right? So will he keep quiet just because he has only 50% chance?? You go out and take chances.
Its at 50% , either yes or no. But only if you get out and pursue something, the 50% can happen, else it stays at 0%.
You seem very cerebral. You may have some partial Asperger's? it is best to acknowledge this. Also i think people who have rigid ideas of age and dating are self limiting.
At 30, I would think you should be dating from age 23 to like 45 years old.
Might be hard but try and lighten up and just have some fun. Are fairly intense? Not much of a person who can laugh and cut up? Maybe drink a bit so you can be a bit freer-er with emotion but not too much.
Join and adults with Asperger's group because you will find other women like you there. Comic conventions might be good too.
You might be right. I can't even kiss someone I don't love, and automatically retract. Can't fake it. I know, what a freak, huh? A genuine human being.
I am not sure your real, you yanking our chain Bro?
I don't know what alumni refers to and if we have something corresponding in Europe. As for Mensa, I had an online crush with a Mensa girl. Broke my heart when she got cold feet and took a 180 and never took the train to see me. I really fell for her... Very tough girl, total ***** to most other users but always a softie to me. This was the ultimate sign to me that this is the one, if I played my cards right. Well, I didn't. I wrote a few insensitive stuff and messed up. I was only 23 back then though, and a jerk.
I'd say the 2 keys to scoring dates are being nice and having a useful existence in the form of a good job or other worthy pursuits.
Are you nice? Are you productive? Do you make some decent greenbacks?
Nice+Money=Dates. It's that simple at your age.
Women want partners who are productive earners and who are easy to be around.
The looks are a nice plus, but they won't do the heavy lifting. Plenty of ugly guys are successful with women because they are nice people who are easy to be around and do something interesting and productive that generates sufficient bucks to accomplish their personal goals. They are also seen as good partners for raising a family.
So be nice. Be easy and pleasant to hang with. Be low maintenance. And make some decent money.
I will be candid and say that after reading several of your posts that it is indeed over for you. I can't quite put my finger on it. For starters, there's a lack of maturity for someone your age.
Why does someone’s sexuality have to come into play every time a man says he has trouble with attracting women?!
Because sexuality is a thing. your reaction to a neutral question means something.
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My father does not believe in the concept at all. He does not think we were meant for it. There is a period of excitation, degradation, and ultimately irreconcilability.
I want to prove him wrong.
What does your father have to do with your love life?
Look mate, I don't care what anyone here says - there is no such thing as out of your league.
Appearance matters only for the first impression. Your personality is what changes your reality.
If you don't like yourself, even if someone likes you, you are bound to lose them.
Find what you don't like about yourself and change it.
For example, learn to communicate. Your answers are dry. You sound like you are depressed.
If you want to change that just go to a psychologist. If you are sick all the time will you just stay at home or go to a doctor?
And think well why you need validation from your father.
Absolutely. "Out of your league" is only a little bit physical, and that physical component often only deals with hookups in a bar.
There are people who have more to offer a potential partner. They have a wide circle of very nice friends, decent money, a close and wonderful supportive family, and great social skills, as well as at least average looks and good health. That's the "league" they're in.
Typical dumb associations from the other sex. I know that's status to a woman, who are only concerned with shallow stuff. I can have 500 friends, be dumb as a rock, and have the moral compass of a volley ball, but as long as I have those superficial stuff around me, I'm in a high league.
Thank god there are statistical anomalities who don't think like you do.
I'd say the 2 keys to scoring dates are being nice and having a useful existence in the form of a good job or other worthy pursuits.
Are you nice? Are you productive? Do you make some decent greenbacks?
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I don't seek a woman who uses me as a cash cow. She can earn her own money and love me for who I am. If such women don't exist, it will stay at intercourse only.
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. This was the ultimate sign to me that this is the one, if I played my cards right. Well, I didn't. I wrote a few insensitive stuff and messed up. I was only 23 back then though, and a jerk.
