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Old 11-05-2019, 01:05 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Interesting you compare yourself to Elliot Rodger. Are we supposed to be afraid or something?
Yep, this thread won't last long if he keeps that up.

 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:08 PM
 
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Interesting you compare yourself to Elliot Rodger. Are we supposed to be afraid or something?
No...I have absolutely no desire to hurt others. Elliot Rodger was a VERY sick person.

HOWEVER...His deranged mental state was brought on by repeated rejections due to his unfortunate physical appearance. I compared myself to him, because I look similar to him physically.....coincidentally as do many men who are involuntary Celibate virgins.

That being said, my response to rejection is to avoid women rather than plot treacherous schemes like Elliot Rodger

Women just do not like that look that Mr. Rodger and myself were unfortunately cursed with. I will not get into race, because that is prohibited, but we all know what I am talking about.

Think the same part of the world Toyota's are manufactured....Men of that nationality have always been considered the least physically attractive to women.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:11 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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No...I have absolutely no desire to hurt others. Elliot Rodger was a VERY sick person.

HOWEVER...His deranged mental state was brought on by repeated rejections due to his unfortunate physical appearance. I compared myself to him, because I look similar to him physically.....coincidentally as do many men who are virgins.

Women just do not like that look that Mr. Rodger and myself were unfortunately cursed with. I will not get into race, because that is prohibited, but we all know what I am talking about. Think the same part of the world Toyota's are manufactured....Men of that nationality have always been considered the least physically attractive to women.


His looks didn't hold him back. He wasn't really bad looking at all. Loads of dudes WAY WAY uglier than him on the outside date and have relationships with cute women every single day, including men from SE Asia. Just look around.


He was mentally a mess. That was his issue. Not his looks.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:11 PM
 
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Originally Posted by BobKidwell View Post
No...I have absolutely no desire to hurt others. Elliot Rodger was a VERY sick person.

HOWEVER...His deranged mental state was brought on by repeated rejections due to his unfortunate physical appearance. I compared myself to him, because I look similar to him physically.....coincidentally as do many men who are virgins.

That being said, my response to rejection is to avoid women rather than plot treacherous schemes like Elliot Rodger

Women just do not like that look that Mr. Rodger and myself were unfortunately cursed with. I will not get into race, because that is prohibited, but we all know what I am talking about.

Think the same part of the world Toyota's are manufactured....Men of that nationality have always been considered the least physically attractive to women.

there was nothing wrong with the way he looked.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:12 PM
 
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That is sexuality. Whether you get to express it with another person depends on another person's willingness and desire.
And another person's willingness and desire depends on me not looking repulsive....which unfortunately I do.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:17 PM
 
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there was nothing wrong with the way he looked.
That is not what women thought....otherwise he would have had SOME interest. He didn't even have a smile from a single girl.

I'll never be convinced that had he been perfectly normal mentally, women would have been sexually attracted to him. Also he BECAME mentally unstable due to his poor coping skills of repeated rejection.

Look at Ted Bundy, he was a worse Psycho than Elliot Rodger...yet women didn't care until it was too late. All the women cared about was that he was hot.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:19 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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That is not what women thought....otherwise he would have had SOME interest. He didn't even have a smile from a single girl.

I'll never be convinced that had he been perfectly normal mentally, women would have been sexually attracted to him. Also he BECAME mentally unstable due to his poor coping skills of repeated rejection.
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Well, you're incorrect. But your mental state won't allow you to see it. Nothing we can do about that.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:21 PM
 
Location: The ghetto
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That is not what women thought....otherwise he would have had SOME interest. He didn't even have a smile from a single girl.
That's because he was creepy and strange, not ugly.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:24 PM
 
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That is not what women thought....otherwise he would have had SOME interest. He didn't even have a smile from a single girl.

I'll never be convinced that had he been perfectly normal mentally, women would have been sexually attracted to him. Also he BECAME mentally unstable due to his poor coping skills of repeated rejection.

Look at Ted Bundy, he was a worse Psycho than Elliot Rodger...yet women didn't care until it was too late. All the women cared about was that he was hot.

I don't know a whole heck of a lot about Elliot Rodger. I COULD learn more...but I have a feeling that would be a very dark rabbit hole to go down.


He was messed up in the head, and it had nothing to do with his looks.


Heck, even the Phantom of the Opera had a romantic interest, and he wore a mask! If you're so dang sure your virginity is based on being ugly, put a bag over your head and go forth and conquer.
 
Old 11-05-2019, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Crook County, Hellinois
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there was nothing wrong with the way he looked.
I disagree. I actually think whats-his-face was indeed unattractive. Otherwise, he'd find a girlfriend, like I did at his age. Granted, it may not be the Stacy he really wanted---she can do a lot better than him---but it'd be at least some girlfriend, perhaps one he settled for. (As was the was the case for me.) But he was too unattractive for any woman to even think about dating him, so nobody showed interest. His mental instability was just icing on the cake; women may have much stronger intuition than men, but even they couldn't read what was inside his mind.

Of course, I had my college years in a different time (early 2000's). Today, women's standards for men's looks are much, much higher, at least until settle-down time.
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