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Meh...I have a few I keep in contact with, but its just a once a year "Happy Birthday" on FB, or once in every six months, a "hey, whats happening?" No biggie, because I have made it clear, that I "am very happily married."
Meh...I have a few I keep in contact with, but its just a once a year "Happy Birthday" on FB, or once in every six months, a "hey, whats happening?" No biggie, because I have made it clear, that I "am very happily married."
if more people followed your ways of thinking, maybe there would be less people going back to their exs while in a relationship. I only have 1. Relationships of any kind except for friendships n commitments scare me
if more people followed your ways of thinking, maybe there would be less people going back to their exs while in a relationship. I only have 1. Relationships of any kind except for friendships n commitments scare me
Not really. After we broke up we didn't talk at all for a couple months, then one day she contacted me and we texted a few times, then she suddenly decided that she hated me and stopped, then the other day (like a week ago) she posted a picture of a cute dog on my wall (she knows I'm a dog person) and that's pretty much been it. Meh.
Unfortunately my ex wife still contacts me. Couple weeks ago it was about the dogs. Yesterday it was about me being a firefighter again. Nothing of real concern to her.
Because of her and another I changed phone numbers. The other was bitching about to me changing my number then wanted to text me... I said nope, ain't gonna happen.
Tried it, several times. I've posted before about how it seems the guys I've dated can't accept simple facts/rules - 1. we had a relationship. 2. it's over. 3. we can be friends. 4. i don't want to sleep with you or talk to you every day, don't ask me to call you when i get home to "make sure I'm ok".
My facts/rules seem straightforward but so far they have only worked with one of my exes. I do genuinely care about people, and i think they mistake that for wanting to get back together? even if i never initiate contact.
Tried it, several times. I've posted before about how it seems the guys I've dated can't accept simple facts/rules - 1. we had a relationship. 2. it's over. 3. we can be friends. 4. i don't want to sleep with you or talk to you every day, don't ask me to call you when i get home to "make sure I'm ok".
My facts/rules seem straightforward but so far they have only worked with one of my exes. I do genuinely care about people, and i think they mistake that for wanting to get back together? even if i never initiate contact.
I've had the same issue with females lol.
And most of my exs ***** themselves out for my attention. Major turn off.
Meh...I have a few I keep in contact with, but its just a once a year "Happy Birthday" on FB, or once in every six months, a "hey, whats happening?" No biggie, because I have made it clear, that I "am very happily married."
Same here, I've had some really great ex's, two of them even came to my wedding
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