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buttafly · 07-10-2007, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DawnW

Who are you praying to? I am not sure I get this.

He is the wrong guy for anyone. Period. But you say you still love each other. I am not buying it.

If my husband loves me he will not be looking at other women with lust on the computer. If he loves me he will be honest with me in everything that he does. If he is not, he does not love me.

Dawn

I am praying to GOD. You have to understand..this is not normal. He is dealing with demons. I am a spiritual person and yes....I pray to GOD. Is there something wrong with prayer? I dont understand what you mean when you say "who am I praying to ?" ....Do you undertand what I am saying ? He is my friend despite his issues that I cannot help him with, so I pray for GOD to show him regardless if we are togather or not. I do not hate him.

Yes we do love each other. I might be confused right nowe real deal as someone else stated to me. I know he loves me, but he is not right. I do love him, but other decisions has to be made.

Our love is there, but I will not deal with this situation or drama in my life, but I will treat as if there ws never anything between us.

buttafly · 07-10-2007, 01:27 PM

Right ! I have thought that I will see him on Dateline. See, in the past we did watch it, but not that often. Now is he a mess.

buttafly · 07-10-2007, 01:32 PM

You are right....I do not want this . We live togather now, but I am looking for my own place.

moonsavvy · 07-10-2007, 03:03 PM

Yep this is the situation where love is just not gonna cut it. You know it, you just don't want to know it.

IMO I think you're a little emotionally numb, and that is why it doesn't hurt you as much. Time to get back into life and get some direction, enough of this state of confusion.

christina0001 · 07-10-2007, 05:29 PM

Oh yuck. I promise you, he'll never change. Start figuring out how to move on from this guy before you lose even more time on him.

Magnolia Bloom · 07-10-2007, 09:38 PM

You know his good qualities and so that makes your decision harder. We are brought up thinking that there are good people and bad people. And since you see the good in him, it isn't logical that the "bad" could be real.

Another myth that we grow up with is that if two people love each other, there is always a way to make it work.

You know what you need to do. It won't be easy, but once you do it- one foot in front of the other- you will open yourself up to meeting someone who will treat you as you deserve to be treated and find yourself in a mutually respectful adult relationship.

Just imagine being with someone who will be thinking of only you when the two of you are together...you deserve it and will never find it if you are with this guy.