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Absolutely! Without a doubt... as is going to a club to get aroused, looking at porn, thinking about someone else when you are having sex.... even if it is with yourself! As is sharing confidence with anyone other than your spouse.. i.e. phone sex, cyber sex, having long lunches with someone of the oppisite sex that you are attracted to at work... I would even go as far as to say flirting with the intent to get someone interested in you is cheating.
Don't stop there!! Detachable male organs should be made mandatory, and thought modification, or reprogramming for any and all men in relationships with women. I think they already remade the "Stepford Wives", and when it first hit theatres in the 70's it was considered a bit sexist. Its nice to know that men being the simple creatures we are CAN and WILL stop thinking these "bad" thoughts, so that the women in our lives will not be easily offended. I wonder if when my wife asks me to go with her shopping on Sunday and in my mind I was thinking of watching NASCAR would that be considered cheating. I mean there is no sexual overtone to it so I guess its ok UNLESS there happens to be an attractive looking woman giving the winning driver the trophy at the end of the race then the only reason I was watching the race was to see the attractive girl hand over the trophy then I would be considered cheating and NASCAR would then beconsidered porn.
I disagree that a lap dance is not a sex act. You're right--it is not intercourse but the guy does sometimes have an orgasm or is brought nearly to that point and it's definitely sexual no matter how you look at it.
So, do you think it is ok for your girlfriend/wife to pay a guy for him to rub her through her clothes, get sexual enjoyment out of it and touch him all over? That's not cheating? Is it ok if your girlfriend is hanging out with her male friend who she finds attractive and she masturbates with him the room but he doesn't touch her? And I don't see what difference it makes whether it was paid for or not. It's still getting some sort of sexual gratification from someone who is not your significant other.
So what about women who orgasm over that certain pr of shoes? Is that not cheating? And what about that guy on the soaps???
I never understood the whole strip club thing. In my entire life I've been to strip clubs probably 3 times. Usually it was a group of guys for some event or other.
Dudes that hang out in the places all of the time are pretty much losers in my opinion.
I know, I know, the hate messages are gonna come my way.
I thought strip clubs were ONLY dancing on stage, never gave much thought to lap dances. So when we went, no one was dancing on stage, maybe it was the time of the morning? I don't know. But it was funny, I ended up talking to a few of the ladies, and they're all in relationships w/ men, and their men do not care one bit what they do for a living. Now I thought that was very strange, makes me wonder what these men are also doing.
Then they offered me a job there. How funny. I'm all mad at my husband, and they try to get me to work there. Uh, no thanks!
I thought strip clubs were ONLY dancing on stage, never gave much thought to lap dances. So when we went, no one was dancing on stage, maybe it was the time of the morning? I don't know. But it was funny, I ended up talking to a few of the ladies, and they're all in relationships w/ men, and their men do not care one bit what they do for a living. Now I thought that was very strange, makes me wonder what these men are also doing.
Then they offered me a job there. How funny. I'm all mad at my husband, and they try to get me to work there. Uh, no thanks!
With this economy, I hope your husband or you dont lose your jobs cus then what if your dear husband wants you to go work there? I bet he would be so proud.
I guess it depends on your moral standards..............
Why not worry about this blatant waste of money? Its bad enough that he's doing this but now days, anyone who doesn't have their priorities straight, is heading for trouble!
Of course, the reason she didn't dump him without a second thought is that he probably has lots of money available to waste on this.
In that case, she should be questioning her standards.
since there is often no one at home that has any sex interest in you at all cheating is a questionable term. better to say it interferes with property management.
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