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I called tonight and asked her how her day was and what her holiday plans were this week. I only talked for 10 mins because now that the 1st date has already happened, I don't need to chat it up on he phone anymore. My next call will be asking her out next week which will be tomorrow or Thursday
I'm not following your train of thought here...so after the first date, you're thinking you don't need to "chat it up" at least a bit. I hope you're not playing hard to get TV......
Huh? Why didn't you ask her out when you were talking to her? And why do you think that you only had to talk to her for 10 mins and didn't need to "chat it up" when you talked to her on the phone?
I'm not following your train of thought here...so after the first date, you're thinking you don't need to "chat it up" at least a bit. I hope you're not playing hard to get TV......
Because it was said somewhere after the first date only call with a PURPOSE. My purpose tonight was to see-"How her day was and to see what she was doing for the Holiday." It was also to see if she answered the phone and she did. So we talked and I teased her a little and then when the conversation seemed to be going at a nice pace i ended it.
So the next call's purpose will be to set up another meeting and then once it's set like my grandpop would say-"GET OUTTA THERE"
Huh? Why didn't you ask her out when you were talking to her? And why do you think that you only had to talk to her for 10 mins and didn't need to "chat it up" when you talked to her on the phone?
I'm not following your thought process.
Mainly because i know we both are not available this week so why even bring it up? I just wanted to show I was thinking about her. Why a set up a date a week and a half in advance??
I only talked for 10 mins because now that the 1st date has already happened, I don't need to chat it up on he phone anymore.
The World According To TVSG.
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Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy
Because it was said somewhere after the first date only call with a PURPOSE. It was also to see if she answered the phone and she did.
So the next call's purpose will be to set up another meeting and then once it's set like my grandpop would say-"GET OUTTA THERE"
Grasshopper, I can guarantee you that this relationship is going to end up like all the others - nowhere. The way your mind works where relationships are concerned is just so out there and a total mess of game-playing and an unwavering black and white stance which allows no grey in any situation at all. Why on earth would anyone call someone "to see if she answered the 'phone"? The majority of people just wouldn't even think of that. Sheesh.
Because it was said somewhere after the first date only call with a PURPOSE. My purpose tonight was to see-"How her day was and to see what she was doing for the Holiday." It was also to see if she answered the phone and she did. So we talked and I teased her a little and then when the conversation seemed to be going at a nice pace i ended it.
So the next call's purpose will be to set up another meeting and then once it's set like my grandpop would say-"GET OUTTA THERE"
lol
A girl who likes a guy will welcome his call almost anytime. Guaranteed. Unless of course, she has her own PURPOSE in mind. Where are you getting your "dating guide" from?. Your approach makes sense in a business office, but not in communication in the dating world....
Because it was said somewhere after the first date only call with a PURPOSE. My purpose tonight was to see-"How her day was and to see what she was doing for the Holiday." It was also to see if she answered the phone and she did. So we talked and I teased her a little and then when the conversation seemed to be going at a nice pace i ended it.
So the next call's purpose will be to set up another meeting and then once it's set like my grandpop would say-"GET OUTTA THERE"
lol
Once again, you've got it ALL wrong. You truly are your own worst enemy.
He will give her test after test until she fails one of his "requirements" and it will end like the others lol
Maybe there's nothing wrong with TVSG. Maybe he just has high standards so that's why he doesn't have much luck with dating.
I'm not saying this is definitely the case, but that's how you make it sound. You made it sound like his relationships end because she's not good enough for him.
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