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I have a friend,a former schoolmate who goes online looking for that only. She is a professional woman who has a great career and her own,very independent,not looking for money. I think its dangerous for her and told her so. She is not looking for a relationship and clearly states what she wants in her posts. Is there any way I could change her mind as I'm concerned for her? Can she get fired from her job for posing in semi nude photos and the graphic language she has in her profile?
I do see on this site a lot of men looking for the same thing.Mainly married men though,but when I read her profile she has no boundaries on who she wants to bed her.
I don't think appropriate is the right word because what's appropriate is very subjective, but dangerous? Yes absolutely.
I think what your friend is doing is becoming more and more common, especially when utilizing sites like Craigslist, which make it very easy to set up casual hook ups with strangers.
If she wants to be promiscuous, that's her decision, but she needs to understand how much she's putting at risk every time she meets one of these strangers wanting to have random sex. "The Craigslist Killer" was just on Lifetime the other weekend and that was a TV movie portraying this real-life guy who went around raping and sometimes killing women he met on Craigslist.
So as long as she's aware of the dangers and takes precautions to eliminate said dangers to the best of her ability, she should be okay. She might even realize that taking care of her sexual needs this way is not only putting her health in danger (including possibly obtaining STD's) but it's also not a very satisfying life.
Why it is again, different rules for men and women? If men seeks, why would not women do the same thing? There is no difference who is doing it. I do not but it is not my concern if others do that.
I have a friend,a former schoolmate who goes online looking for that only. She is a professional woman who has a great career and her own,very independent,not looking for money. I think its dangerous for her and told her so. She is not looking for a relationship and clearly states what she wants in her posts. Is there any way I could change her mind as I'm concerned for her? Can she get fired from her job for posing in semi nude photos and the graphic language she has in her profile?
I do see on this site a lot of men looking for the same thing.Mainly married men though,but when I read her profile she has no boundaries on who she wants to bed her.
Accept others don't have the same morals/thoughts as you do.
Why it is again, different rules for men and women? If men seeks, why would not women do the same thing? There is no difference who is doing it. I do not but it is not my concern if others do that.
I was thinking the same thing. It's not for me, but to each their own--man or woman.
I have a friend,a former schoolmate who goes online looking for that only. She is a professional woman who has a great career and her own,very independent,not looking for money. I think its dangerous for her and told her so. She is not looking for a relationship and clearly states what she wants in her posts. Is there any way I could change her mind as I'm concerned for her? Can she get fired from her job for posing in semi nude photos and the graphic language she has in her profile?
I do see on this site a lot of men looking for the same thing.Mainly married men though,but when I read her profile she has no boundaries on who she wants to bed her.
It simply isn't any of your business. You gave her your opinion as a friend, and that's that.
Talk to your friend if you are concerned. But people are their own individuals, so you can either stay friends with her and ignore what you disapprove of. Or break it off if it bothers you a lot.
Probably would bug me and I would end the friendship. But to each his/her own
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