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Old 01-30-2011, 07:39 AM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Simply put, we've had far too many threads on here about guys not knowing if a girl was into them and/or misreading the signs and eventually getting put into the dreaded friend zone.

That is unacceptable! It's time to take the bull by the horns here.

Ladies
: let's hear how YOU let a guy know you're interested. This can be anything from the easier to read body language to any other tricks you might have up your sleeves. Feel free to share anything.

Boys
: Listen up. You could learn something!

And...go!

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Old 01-30-2011, 09:01 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I agree that women should help men read the signs ... it doesn't hurt to stop and ask for directions, either.
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Old 01-30-2011, 09:15 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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"omg liek I was TTLY showing him i wuz in2 him!!! i looked @ his eyez 1 tiem lollll!!!!"

remember ladies, none of us is a mind reader, you've gotta be a bit more direct
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Old 01-30-2011, 09:24 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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Ladies
: let's hear how YOU let a guy know you're interested. This can be anything from the easier to read body language to any other tricks you might have up your sleeves. Feel free to share anything.
The basics never hurt: body language, subtle flirtation, showing an interest in him and the things he's interested in, etc. If he responds similarly, then you know it's okay to forge ahead

But overall, I've learned that it's best to be more direct. You don't get anywhere in life by *****-footing around the situation!
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Old 01-30-2011, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Those boys should just learn how to read, Bosco! Articles, that is!

http://ezinearticles.com/?18-Signs-That-a-Girl-Likes-You&id=2577961 (broken link)

20 Signs that She Likes You - Associated Content from Yahoo! - associatedcontent.com

How To Tell When A Woman Is Attracted To You - Signals Women Give When Flirting And Signs Of Female Attraction
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Old 01-30-2011, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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I need it to be ultra-simple, since I'm an ultra-simple kinda' guy.

Just strip and mount me. I'll get it. Doesn't matter, public or private - no games, OK?
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Old 01-30-2011, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Oh, yeah - an ad for an eBook - lovely!

Gee, I can learn ALL the mysteries of FEMALES, a value of over $179.95, for ONLY $19.95!

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Old 01-30-2011, 09:56 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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Oh, yeah - an ad for an eBook - lovely!

Gee, I can learn ALL the mysteries of FEMALES, a value of over $179.95, for ONLY $19.95!
Well I'm just wondering why, if you say it's so simple per your previous post, you clicked on her links? Trying to learn something, are ya?
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Well I'm just wondering why, if you say it's so simple per your previous post, you clicked on her links? Trying to learn something, are ya?
No, it's just part of my sworn duties to my cyber-wife - I have to feign interest in everything she posts.

Don't tell her I said that, though, OK? I'll be in the C-D doghouse for a week!
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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All of this debate is ridiculous. As my mother used to say to me, "If you have to ask whether a man is interested in you, he is NOT." If a man is attracted to a woman, it will be obvious, even among shy or retiring guys.

It's no different with a woman. If a woman is attracted to you, you will KNOW it. It seems so many people here complicate something that is essentially very simple.
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