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I'm usually a very unselfish lover. When I'm with someone intimately, I want us both to have a good orgasm, not just me. I find that the more turned on he is, the more I am so I almost always see to it that we both have our needs met.
Having never had a "bad" orgasm ( what is that I wonder ?!?!) I am puzzled by the expression.
Regarding sex though unless both of us are seriously enjoying ourselves sex seems utterly pointless to me. Yes I do want to enjoy sex but if Hubby isn't then my enjoyment will be seriously curtailed. To me sex is about TWO people , the pleasure should mutual and giving is as good as receiving in my opinion.
Sex to me is about a shared intimacy , two people coming ( pardon the pun) together in a physical and emotional union.
There is nothing sexier than a Lover who is obviously enjoying your ministrations... A shared climax IMO is always best.
Do you care whether your partner, you are having sex with, has a good orgasm or not?
There are good, and not so good ones.
Sex for me is indeed the one huge selfish act I induge in, and I say selfish because I mean it's the only time I'm not thinking about any of my problems, or anxieties, or worrying about my children, or my friends....in fact sex is the only time I give ALL of me. I become totally absorbed in the pleasure that me and my partner can provide for each other.
For me, I would say that I place a prety good importance on my wife's pleasure. I actually sometimes take more enjoyment in giving than receiving. I dunno, it turns me on like nothing else.
Still waiting for her to return the favor, but that's another story.
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