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Old 02-14-2011, 01:13 PM
 
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Your mistake was having sex with him.

The mystery is over.

He's probably lost interest.
true...i was actually thinking not to before we met that night but things still happened...sometimes i dont know if things just happened natually and we should be spontenous or we should just hold there and playing hard to get...ahhh...headache!
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:13 PM
 
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Your mistake was having sex with him.

The mystery is over.

He's probably lost interest.


This is like the 4th thread on the same situation in the last week. They all should be consolidated and made onto a sticky.
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Date someone else. You will hear from him again if he is interested. Move on.

There are some men and women out there who lose all interest once the deed is done and they have their 'conquest'. If he is one of these, you haven't lost anything because he wasn't capable of sticking around anyway. Better to have found out early in the game.
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:15 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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true...i was actually thinking not to before we met that night but things still happened...sometimes i dont know if things just happened natually and we should be spontenous or we should just hold there and playing hard to get...ahhh...headache!
Wait for him to contact you.

And if you go out with him, don't allow him to think every time you meet it's time for nookie.
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:16 PM
 
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Date someone else. You will hear from him again if he is interested. Move on.

There are some men and women out there who lose all interest once the deed is done and they have their 'conquest'. If he is one of these, you haven't lost anything because he wasn't capable of sticking around anyway. Better to have found out early in the game.
thanks for the last comments! thats one of my many thoughts too, if he is a jerk it might not be different to have sex at the 4th date or the 40th date, maybe its good to find out that asap....
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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won't he contact her when he's "ready" regardless? just saying..
Yes, but actually telling him that makes it clear that she isn't going to go on the chase.
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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After that he didnt contact me for a few days. I emailed him twice and finally he sent me an email and said he is not ready yet.
You shouldn't have done that, but it's too late for fixing that.

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What I want to know is should i send him an email telling him that I really miss him and would like to know if he still want to continue?
no

IMO, this thing has run its course and you shouldn't dwell on it anymore.
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:19 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Here's a new one! On his way home he was in a terrible automobile accident and cannot walk. Now considering himself not man enough for you, he's wallowing in self pity on his couch, meanwhile you're online listening to all these people who haven't seen Sleepless in Seattle! ohhh the humanity!
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:22 PM
 
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Here's a new one! On his way home he was in a terrible automobile accident and cannot walk. Now considering himself not man enough for you, he's wallowing in self pity on his couch, meanwhile you're online listening to all these people who haven't seen Sleepless in Seattle! ohhh the humanity!

Thanks for making me laugh!! I guess it's hard to know what exactly the other person's thoughts, but I might not expecting that much from him and move on to other possibilities.
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Old 02-14-2011, 01:24 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Thanks for making me laugh!! I guess it's hard to know what exactly the other person's thoughts, but I might not expecting that much from him and move on to other possibilities.
Thank you for getting that I was trying to make you laugh. It could be anything, none of us are mind readers. We seem to forget that though.
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