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Old 02-26-2011, 09:10 PM
 
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i'm depressed over a guy i recently met who is in a relationship?
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Old 02-26-2011, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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hell that happened to me last week, only it was over a girl. Is it pathetic? Maybe, but I don't really care. It's not often you meet a girl who's super cool, into the same kind of music you like, has a very kind and friendly personality. And it's even less often you meet one who is all of those things AND stable. And it's even less often that she's all those things, AND stable, AND single. And sadly, she was not that last bit :/
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Old 02-26-2011, 09:14 PM
 
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Are you the same pathetic, self loathing, low self esteem woman that hits on all the married men?
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Old 02-26-2011, 09:15 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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i'm depressed over a guy i recently met who is in a relationship?
Seriously?? Now, what do you think?
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Old 02-26-2011, 09:44 PM
 
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its one thing to be bummed, but to be depressed???

yes, pathetic.
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Old 02-26-2011, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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i'm depressed over a guy i recently met who is in a relationship?
Situations such as this happen from time-to-time. The one you want is with someone else and, yes, it is a bummer. So feeling down about having an opportunity so close but so far is understandable and not pathetic.

However, if you hang around waiting for him or hoping something will change while, in the meantime, neglecting yourself and/or the pursuit of other opportunities, then that is pathetic.
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Old 02-26-2011, 09:49 PM
 
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i'm depressed over a guy i recently met who is in a relationship?
I don't think you are pathetic. In fact, you are far from it. Nowadays there are MORE single men than ever. We seem to be having this discussion regularly. Hold your head up and start looking. I bet there are men reading your posts right now wondering what you look like and are shaking in their boots to find out. LOL Get some self esteem. After all, you are a woman, right? The ball is in YOUR court. The men who can't muster up the guts to ask, are the ones that are scr*wed.
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Old 02-26-2011, 10:26 PM
 
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if you recently met them then why are you affected by this? Are you rebounding from a previous relationship? Also do you tend to be attracted to men with girlfriends or wives?
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Old 02-26-2011, 10:27 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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See him on the side, that should relief your depression.
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Old 02-26-2011, 10:46 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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i'm depressed over a guy i recently met who is in a relationship?
It's not really you should necessarily be "depressed" about. Bummed out about it, maybe. I don't see you as being pathetic, but keep both your chin up and you eyes looking forward!

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hell that happened to me last week, only it was over a girl. Is it pathetic? Maybe, but I don't really care. It's not often you meet a girl who's super cool, into the same kind of music you like, has a very kind and friendly personality. And it's even less often you meet one who is all of those things AND stable. And it's even less often that she's all those things, AND stable, AND single. And sadly, she was not that last bit :/
At some point she will be single. It's only a matter of time.

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I don't think you are pathetic. In fact, you are far from it. Nowadays there are MORE single men than ever. We seem to be having this discussion regularly. Hold your head up and start looking. I bet there are men reading your posts right now wondering what you look like and are shaking in their boots to find out. LOL Get some self esteem. After all, you are a woman, right? The ball is in YOUR court. The men who can't muster up the guts to ask, are the ones that are scr*wed.
Where are these single men? I was in NYC today and kept seeing all these couples!! Was there a singles convention in another city that I did not know about? Maybe they changed cities last minute, perhaps?
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