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OP, I know a girl just like that. She was such a good girl, but once she got liposuction done, she changed. She turned into the girl you are describing, and I doubt she can be changed
I'm not trying to change her. I want to know what I can do to become the type of man that could lock her down. Would I need to cheat on her? Keep other women on the side? Be a party boy? I don't think the "nice guy" routine would cut it.
But, on the other hand, do you think a woman like this could function well in a "drama free" relationship?
just because a person goes to church does NOT mean they are automatically a good person. If a person does NOT go to church doesnt make them a bad person either.
Oh, I SO agree with you! But in his mind, she is good because she goes to church.
I'm not trying to change her. I want to know what I can do to become the type of man that could lock her down. Would I need to cheat on her? Keep other women on the side? Be a party boy? I don't think the "nice guy" routine would cut it.
But, on the other hand, do you think a woman like this could function well in a "drama free" relationship?
Okay. "Lock her down" is a big fat red flag to me. Are you going to put her in a freaking cage? Look, either she is a stable person or she is not. Get a clue and don't get into a relationship with her.
Play God - who the F do you think you are that you feel it is your right to change her into someone else? What make you think you are so omniscient as to know what is right for her?
Either you love her (as is) or you don't.
I hope she takes your dangly bits, rips them off, and shoves them down your throat for even THINKING something like this. The arrogance! The conceit! The audacity!
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Originally Posted by Gentle Don
How do you get a girl to be a good, loving girlfriend/wife who...
P.S. Please don't say "You should always avoid women like this in the first place." I want to know how to get this type of girl to be a faithful, loving girlfriend. I also want to know if a relationship with such a woman would require a constant stream of drama or whether she would change if the man used the right game techniques.
Oh hell no. It is SHE who should always avoid such haughty, vainglorious, pompous, bombastic, superficial, overbearing, manipulative, insensitive barbarian such as you.
What would make you think you have the right to even THINK of changing another being. Did she ASK you for help? Did she authorize you? or do you think that some unknown entity bestowed upon your eminent self the right to interfere with someone's core being?
I got news for you if you think the answer is yes. It AIN'T ! You DO NOT.
Methinks the OP needs to look in the mirror and see the ugliness that is staring back.
Yep. Men find that good girl/bad girl combination to be well-nigh irresistible.
but NOT for a LTR more for a ONS
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