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Old 03-13-2011, 06:27 PM
 
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she says she's lonely then never wants to be close in bed, she would rather listen or read a book. When we talk she expects me to listen and not talk. Most of the time I listen and then she complains I don't really care. She accuses me of being a recluse but she has such a bad temper , it's either yell or never get a word in . I feel like it is stress related but she refuses to see a Doctor about it..............and she thinks her friends have perfect relationships ,it is exhausting. Learning to get along is my constant goal, most times it's about as rewarding as trying to kiss a diamondback rattle snake
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Old 03-13-2011, 06:39 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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You do not mention her age, a lot of conditions may apply. She may be menopausal, bi-polar, thyroid condition, high blood pressure. Regardless it is only healthy to get a full medical exam with a full blood work at least every ten years.
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Old 03-13-2011, 06:53 PM
 
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maybe she's wanting to do something with you, do you ever do anything together other than in the bed??.... Maybe she doesn't think you're really listening....are you?.... Maybe she has a bad temper BECAUSE you're a recluse......How old are you guys?...could she be going through the change of life, sometimes that makes women moody.....I think you should take your woman out, and do something nice together, show her that you DO love her, you never know...that rattlesnake could turn into something less lethal, and very sweet.
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:02 PM
 
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what is she stressed about? And has she always been like this?
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:18 PM
 
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Words of Al Bundy

Women can't live with em .... end of story
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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Words of Al Bundy

Women can't live with em .... end of story
Men, can't live with them and can't live without ..their paychecks.
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:31 PM
 
Location: silver springs
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she says she's lonely then never wants to be close in bed, she would rather listen or read a book. When we talk she expects me to listen and not talk. Most of the time I listen and then she complains I don't really care. She accuses me of being a recluse but she has such a bad temper , it's either yell or never get a word in . I feel like it is stress related but she refuses to see a Doctor about it..............and she thinks her friends have perfect relationships ,it is exhausting. Learning to get along is my constant goal, most times it's about as rewarding as trying to kiss a diamondback rattle snake
how long with her? is she going through the flashes? if so, you are in for the fun times
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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she says she's lonely then never wants to be close in bed, she would rather listen or read a book. When we talk she expects me to listen and not talk. Most of the time I listen and then she complains I don't really care. She accuses me of being a recluse but she has such a bad temper , it's either yell or never get a word in . I feel like it is stress related but she refuses to see a Doctor about it..............and she thinks her friends have perfect relationships ,it is exhausting. Learning to get along is my constant goal, most times it's about as rewarding as trying to kiss a diamondback rattle snake

Gezzzz....sounds like she needs to get laid!
Tell her that you are going to record her someday, and then play it back for her to listen to. Good luck!
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Old 03-13-2011, 08:30 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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she says she's lonely then never wants to be close in bed, she would rather listen or read a book. When we talk she expects me to listen and not talk. Most of the time I listen and then she complains I don't really care. She accuses me of being a recluse but she has such a bad temper , it's either yell or never get a word in . I feel like it is stress related but she refuses to see a Doctor about it..............and she thinks her friends have perfect relationships ,it is exhausting. Learning to get along is my constant goal, most times it's about as rewarding as trying to kiss a diamondback rattle snake
Communication is the key. Pick a good time and politely tell her what you have told us. But you might want to exclude the bit about the diamondback rattle snake

If it still continues, no use being in a unhappy relationship, plenty more fish in the sea.

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Old 03-13-2011, 09:38 PM
 
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Default I am not really unhappy..................

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Communication is the key. Pick a good time and politely tell her what you have told us. But you might want to exclude the bit about the diamondback rattle snake

If it still continues, no use being in a unhappy relationship, plenty more fish in the sea.
............she is 60 and I'm 65..........she needs to get to the Doctor but want go................she's always been moody and irrational at times, she says she's working on it and doesn't want to talk about it
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