confused! (guy, cheating, friends, mature)

[Childfree35]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

I think you know in your heart that this is not how a good husband behaves.

The real question is, what are YOU going to do about it?

This is correct. Not a good and respectful hubs.

Three options:
Wait an hour and go to the club/bar
Ask him can you go
Sit and take it

Your husband thinks he's still single. Pull his collar.

[zentropa]

What kind of club are we talking about. "The Club" to me means something like a country club, or a sailing club or something like that, but are you talking about a night club? Does he have a job? How does one go out clubbing until 2 or 3 several times a week and still function in the real world?

Sounds like someone needs to grow up. Such drastically independent behavior is a death blow to a marriage.

[round4]

Oh my!! Hun...You best start looking hubby up, he may not even BE AT THE CLUB....

[WFW&P]

Originally Posted by NY Annie

of course - but no one can hear you. So talker thinks s/he is brilliant!

LOL!
Guess that answers what the OP's BF is really doing.
Couldn't +1 you

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by WFW&P

You can talk in a club?

I can't think of a better place to "talk" with buddies, either!

[WFW&P]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

I can't think of a better place to "talk" with buddies, either!

...............or maybe the OP misunderstood her BF and he actually said he stares at buddies.

[Sonata36]

Wow, my wife freaks out when I leave her in the house so I can change the oil in the cars in the garage. I even bring the two year old with me to keep him out of her hair.

She should read this thread and realize how good she has it................

[funymann]

Originally Posted by msyoung2011

Is it wrong for me to be worried about my husband going out to the club routinely at least two to three times a week and staying out until 2 or 3 am? He says he just hanging out and talking to friends.

Yes.

You should be worried.

You should be WITH him going to clubs.

[crabman1]

Going to the club several times a week where he enjoys talking so much that he looses track of time and doesnt make it home till 2 or 3 in the morning? While possible I'm thinking this suggestion is far from likely. It is time for a talk and I would verify the results of that conversation and know them to be fact considering that most possible scenarios mean lies have already been told. With the matter up on the table I would be under the expectation that there will be more coming.

[Hawk J]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

I can't think of a better place to "talk" with buddies, either!

Most guys talk to boobies...