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Old 02-11-2013, 12:50 PM
 
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Do you dance? Are you attracted to men/women who know how to shake it on the dance floor?

If you don't dance, why?

If you like to dance but the person you're interested in doesn't know how to dance, does it matter to you?


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Old 02-11-2013, 12:53 PM
 
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No. I don't care if the woman can dance or not.

I'm a terrible dancer. Always have been.
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Old 02-11-2013, 12:55 PM
 
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No question. A woman that can dance wins brownie points with me. She doesn't even have to be a good dancer, but have the ability to go out and make a "fool" of herself is what is really the turn on. So the dancing part isn't so much the turn on as much as the ability to have fun and do something you aren't very good at!
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Old 02-11-2013, 12:55 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I don't dance because-

A. I have no groove like that. It looks like i am in a bathtub with a plugged in toaster inside it.

B. Never enjoyed dance/house/techno, Went to live music venues instead for rock and metal.

If someone can dance it's great and does not matter to me.
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Old 02-11-2013, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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I don't care if she can dance or not, but it would be nice if she could so I could take lessons from her.
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Old 02-11-2013, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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I LOVE TO DANCE!!! And a woman who enjoys going out to dance is a huge plus!!!
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Old 02-11-2013, 01:02 PM
 
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a woman who cant dance?...thats almost a red flag for me (I wonder about her sexual rhyhtm)....in my experience most women could dance at least a little and keep a beat..it's men that seem to have questionable rhythm
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Old 02-11-2013, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Central Jersey
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"When you dance, I can really love..." Neil Young.

I enjoy dancing, once I'm cajoled into going out on the floor; I tend to be a wallflower generally. My wife, however, is a great dancer, and loves it. I find it attractive, and think it's interesting that most women, of any age or shape, are pretty good dancers --- at least that's what I've noticed.

Not to get too essentialist, but it sometimes feels that women (even those who are otherwise insecure or self-conscious) can tap into their "body awareness" and just lose themselves in dancing, whereas a lot of guys can't seem to turn of their inner dialogue or something. About two-thirds of men (at least in my demographic, white American) range from "not great" to "awful" in the dancing departments. I just try to keep the beat and not get too fancy.
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Old 02-11-2013, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I don't think I've ever dated a guy who can dance. I can dance - but I don't really go out dancing that much and could care less if a guy can dance or not.
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Old 02-11-2013, 02:10 PM
 
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Yes. I love dancing. He must have no shame. Doesn't have to be good, but he cant be shy and sit in a corner all night.
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