Virgins (dating, marry, women, love)

[theking8]

I'm a guy, 22 and done everything except have sex. I've been with more experienced girls, had opportunities to do it, but am hesitant to sleep with someone who isn't a virgin.

Maybe it's an issue (the "sanctity" of sex, but assume it won't change), but I just want to know - how difficult/easy is it to find girls who are still virgins in my age range (20+)? Let me know if you have personal insight/stories

[sydney1987]

i'm a virgin. sorry, i'm not interested :P

why are you so keen on sleeping with someone? or rather, finding a virgin to sleep with? wait until you fall in love with someone and it feels right.... or better, wait til marriage. but thats just my opinion.

[buddy5]

Originally Posted by sydney1987

i'm a virgin. sorry, i'm not interested :P

why are you so keen on sleeping with someone? or rather, finding a virgin to sleep with? wait until you fall in love with someone and it feels right.... or better, wait til marriage. but thats just my opinion.

And a fine opinion it is.

[imsh0t]

i dont think you be that hung up on whether they are a virgin now. U really are blocking urself off from alarge part of the population. U should however date only women who are conservative in their dating ie. does not sleep around, only gets into dedicated long term relationships.

[purehuman]

so if you find a virgin and sleep with her, does that mean you'll marry her too, or do you just like the idea of of sleeping with someone who's as inexperienced as you?

[Smedskjaer]

I think you are waiting for the perfect girl and virginity is just an excuse.

[suedonym]

when hubby and i first 'did it' he was a virgin - i was not.

i didnt know that till years later, though.

neither one of us cared. it has no affect on what kind of person either one is.

[crazy_bd]

I'm going to try some analogies.

If you were to take driving lessons, would you rather take classes from an experienced driver or from someone who's never been behind the wheel?

If you were to get yourself a car, would you not first test drive a few models to find out which suited you best?

[sydney1987]

Originally Posted by crazy_bd

I'm going to try some analogies.

If you were to take driving lessons, would you rather take classes from an experienced driver or from someone who's never been behind the wheel?

If you were to get yourself a car, would you not first test drive a few models to find out which suited you best?

ur talking like a used car salesman.

everybody who uses this analogy, thats what u guys sound like.


people are NOT cars.

[Backliteyes]

Originally Posted by theking8

...I just want to know - how difficult/easy is it to find girls who are still virgins in my age range (20+)?

Statistics I've heard are that something like half lose their virginity in high school and it becomes a significant majority by the end of college (~ age 22). I would venture to say that by the time you're in your mid-twenties, it might be something like 1 or 2 in 10 that's still a virgin. So happy virgin-hunting I guess, good luck with that.