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Old 05-28-2011, 01:58 AM
 
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I turn 22 last week ago and yet 2011 still have not had sex and I'm black, I know some people think like what serious lot of people think all black guys have sex alot which half of it is true, but not me I rather wait intell marriage not a a hurry for me it just feel weird loosing mine virginity to some ***** or a women I don't even know. I rather lose it to a women I'm going to spend the reset of mine life with I could not understand why people in the hood can't understand that.Lots of women in the hood would not even think about dating guy like mine self in the age I'm am still a virgin.
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Old 05-28-2011, 02:21 AM
 
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I turned 22 last week and yet it's 2011 and I still have not had sex and I'm black. I know some people think like--"What? Are you serious?" A lot of people think all black guys have sex a lot which is half true; but not me I'd rather wait until marriage. I'm not in a hurry. For me it just feels weird losing my virginity to some ***** or a women I don't even know. I'd rather lose it to a women I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. I could not understand why people in the hood can't understand that.Lots of women in the hood would not even think about dating a guy like myself at the age I am and still a virgin.

I really wouldn't worry about it. I know that's easy for me to say. Maybe you need to try dating people who aren't in the hood. I hope you don't take this as an insult, but maybe it would be better if you focused on learning to write better or to get some good job skills. Those things will help you to attract a better quality woman in your life. If you talk and write like you're from the hood, then those are the kind of women you are going to attract.
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Old 05-28-2011, 02:55 AM
 
Location: USA
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Church sounds like a good place to meet a virtuous woman!
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:12 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Old 05-28-2011, 07:36 AM
 
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I turn 22 last week ago and yet 2011 still have not had sex and I'm black, I know some people think like what serious lot of people think all black guys have sex alot which half of it is true, but not me I rather wait intell marriage not a a hurry for me it just feel weird loosing mine virginity to some ***** or a women I don't even know. I rather lose it to a women I'm going to spend the reset of mine life with I could not understand why people in the hood can't understand that.Lots of women in the hood would not even think about dating guy like mine self in the age I'm am still a virgin.
Are you sure you're 22? You post barely makes any sense. You type like you're 14.
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Old 05-28-2011, 07:50 AM
 
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Helll yes!! Its not easy to find a guy around your age who hasn't caved into social pressure of "losing your v-card." Stay true to yourself and don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you'll regret.
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Old 05-28-2011, 02:36 PM
 
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how would they know ur a virgin when they start dating u? The only one holding u back is yourself. Work on yourself, be more social, and amp up ur confidence/game.
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Louisiana
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how would they know ur a virgin when they start dating u? The only one holding u back is yourself. Work on yourself, be more social, and amp up ur confidence/game.

I would imagine it would be obvious to spot a person who hasn't been on a real date before.

I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm black myself, 23, and also still a virgin, but I still love my life. As moonpricness stated, some girls may actually like guys that haven't been around. But then, you got girls who wouldn't put up with guys like us in our age group for the sake of "lacking experience". So like always, it depends. I have a theory that, as the sexes get older, your chances of being single increases if you never make a move. Could be total BS, but that's what I always thought.
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Old 05-28-2011, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Land of Free Johnson-Weld-2016
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That's crazy! 22 is a perfectly OK age to be a virgin. You have plenty of time to have sex.
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Old 05-28-2011, 09:37 PM
 
Location: S.W.PA
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That's crazy! 22 is a perfectly OK age to be a virgin. You have plenty of time to have sex.
Not that uncommon according to my son!
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