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Old 12-26-2011, 04:51 PM
 
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It really didn't become an issue for me until this year when my friends picked up on the fact that I am a virgin, which was my fault for being completely honest and not putting out random numbers like I suspect a lot of them do when conversations about women they have been with come up.

To describe myself, I am 22, black, 6'4", I workout regularly and soon to be a college graduate and I have been told by some girls before that I am pretty cute but they have also said that I am also too quiet(initial response I get when I meet my friends female friends for the first time). Right now there are two girls that are showing strong interest in me and I am thinking of just going ahead with one of them just for the purpose of getting laid.

How would you feel if the guy you were dating was 22 and a virgin?
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Old 12-26-2011, 05:15 PM
 
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I wouldn't bother, because I have a rather colorful sexual history and I would assume he wouldn't be interested anyway. Theres no reason that you need to volunteer this info though
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Old 12-26-2011, 05:17 PM
 
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Theres no reason that you need to volunteer this info though

This. Never share that info.
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Old 12-26-2011, 05:22 PM
 
Location: United State of Texas
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Proceed with your life and don't tell anybody. Nobody's business. Try to get out more and your skills with others will improve.

Your friends will drop it shortly.
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Old 12-26-2011, 05:25 PM
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Location: Brooklyn,NY
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Proceed with your life and don't tell anybody. Nobody's business. Try to get out more and your skills with others will improve.

Your friends will drop it shortly.
Zembonez is right. Just get out there and experience life. Experience is the best teacher. That info is deeply personal and no one's business. We live in a society where all our secrets are expected to be out there. Wrong. Secrets make us part of who we are.
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Old 12-26-2011, 05:27 PM
 
Location: United State of Texas
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Thanks D Scott. I feel like this young man deserves a pat on the back here. Sounds like a pretty decent guy.
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Old 12-26-2011, 05:44 PM
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Location: Brooklyn,NY
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Thanks D Scott. I feel like this young man deserves a pat on the back here. Sounds like a pretty decent guy.
You are welcome! he does sound decent, And has his whole life ahead of him. Hope he makes wise choices for the future.
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Old 12-26-2011, 05:58 PM
 
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How would you feel if the guy you were dating was 22 and a virgin?
If I liked everything else about him, his virginity wouldn't bother me.
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Old 12-26-2011, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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I can't believe any potential GF of yours would think negatively about you being inexperienced. In fact, it very likely would be a turn on for many woman to be a man's first sexual partner. I sure as hell would rather have a 22 year old virgin as opposed to some man who has been with hundreds of girls. You sound like a nice and intelligent guy.... so don't even worry about it.
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Old 12-26-2011, 06:30 PM
 
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You could probably use that info to get laid. Wear an "I'm a virgin" t-shirt and go out to the clubs. It's like a foolproof pick up line...that is, you won't get blown off at least.
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