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Old 05-27-2011, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Santa Barbara
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So I should tell her the male fantasies, but hide the fantasies I have about women then?
If you are speaking about fantasies why hide the ones about women? Fantasy sharing can be quite exciting when in a relationship. Unless of course it makes her jealous and then there are other issues.
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Old 05-27-2011, 05:13 PM
 
Location: USA
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Ive had this discussion with women in my life and 90% of them are grossed out about the thought of you putting your snooker in another guys back side. I would present it slowly and say that "You appreciate the male" form for starters. If you go slowly she may end up being ok with it. I would not bet on it though.

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Old 05-27-2011, 05:30 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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Ive had this discussion with women in my life and 90% of them are grossed out about the thought of you putting your snooker in another guys back side. I would present it slowly and say that "You appreciate he male" form for starters. If you go slowly she may end up being ok with it. I would not bet on it though.
With 3 billion women in the world, I think that's a very poor sample size. I also find anal sex repulsive.
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Old 05-27-2011, 05:53 PM
 
Location: North Sydney, Australia
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Definitely worth telling the ladies. No secrets should be kept
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Old 05-27-2011, 05:54 PM
 
Location: USA
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With 3 billion women in the world, I think that's a very poor sample size. I also find anal sex repulsive.
So your not really "that" Bisexual? As for as the sample size goes, yeah it's small but I bet you the percentages are going to be biased in the favor of the woman being not ok with it!
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Old 05-27-2011, 08:16 PM
 
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Haha how do you know what I'm going to act out on or not? Like I said, I've never been with a dude before.
Not YET. If this is your fantasy (and it's obviously nagging at you since you're posting here for advice), you're going to take that step someday. Maybe not right now, but you will. And if you're in a committed relationship, you absolutely owe it to the other person to let them know.
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Old 05-27-2011, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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As for as the sample size goes, yeah it's small but I bet you the percentages are going to be biased in the favor of the woman being not ok with it!
Feel free to add me to your sample. Can't even begin to imagine being OK with it!
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Old 05-27-2011, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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Not YET. If this is your fantasy (and it's obviously nagging at you since you're posting here for advice), you're going to take that step someday. Maybe not right now, but you will. And if you're in a committed relationship, you absolutely owe it to the other person to let them know.
So all the fantasies you have, you end up fulfilling. Please
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Old 05-27-2011, 08:28 PM
 
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Could OP clarify a bit more...there's a difference between actual bisexuality and bicurious and recognizing that some guys are considered attractive/hot/handsome by most standards does not necessarily make you fall into either category.
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Old 05-27-2011, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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Feel free to add me to your sample. Can't even begin to imagine being OK with it!
Just make sure never to ask your husband/boyfriend then. There's a good chance you might be disappointed in what they have to say.
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