Women "trapping" men into marriage through pregnancy??? (love, cheating, child support)

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

What is that all about?? I think doing something like that would be completely irresponsible, don't you think?? Why would someone do that?

[stan4]

Originally Posted by CancerianMoonPrincess

What is that all about?? I think doing something like that would be completely irresponsible, don't you think?? Why would someone do that?

Why would someone have sex if they didn't weigh in the fact that it could lead to pregnancy?

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

Originally Posted by stan4

Why would someone have sex if they didn't weigh in the fact that it could lead to pregnancy?

Either for money (on the womans part. Stereotypical, I know) and for sex on the man's part (clearly thinking with his pants rather than his brain)

[Themanwithnoname]

I'm assuming this is in response to my discussing my Coz's ex doing that to him.

She was 'in love' and wanted to 'tie him to her'.
(He was a 'player' at the time)

It DID steady him down... he was a wild child, and we were quite proud of him.

SHE... later 'stepped out' (And wanted to live a little)


Seen it around other places.... buddy of mine...

She wanted the Child support.


Etc.


My guess, other than 'classic Gold diggers' is that it's an emotional thing.

[JohnPaul]

Women do that..first I heard of that

[hothulamaui]

oh please a woman "trapping a man" like the man shouldn't be responsible for his little swimmers. give me a break. if a man doesn't want to be a father he should make sure he protects himself

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

Originally Posted by Themanwithnoname

I'm assuming this is in response to my discussing my Coz's ex doing that to him.

She was 'in love' and wanted to 'tie him to her'.
(He was a 'player' at the time)

It DID steady him down... he was a wild child, and we were quite proud of him.

SHE... later 'stepped out' (And wanted to live a little)


Seen it around other places.... buddy of mine...

She wanted the Child support.


Etc.


My guess, other than 'classic Gold diggers' is that it's an emotional thing.

She clearly wasn't thinking on how it would affect her children. How stupid!! No offense.

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

Originally Posted by hothulamaui

oh please a woman "trapping a man" like the man shouldn't be responsible for his little swimmers. give me a break. if a man doesn't want to be a father he should make sure he protects himself

Which is why I think more men should get the snip.

[Themanwithnoname]

Originally Posted by CancerianMoonPrincess

She clearly wasn't thinking on how it would affect her children. How stupid!! No offense.

None taken!
(Never said I liked her!)

-Their 3 kids now live with their dad (My Coz) Who has done a GREAT job of growing up and being mature. (They WERE married for 8 years before she got (Or we knew she got) a BF... cause he wouldn't take her out...
He was working 2+ Jobs!

My buddy... was dumb enough to believe the chick when she said she couldn't have kids.

My Coz... IIRC she went off birth control.

Those are the 2 that come to mind at the moment, I know I've met others...

[stan4]

If you consent to having sex with someone, you can't blame them for ANYTHING that comes of it. Period.

It was your choice to have sex with that person. You should have known they were lying/cheating/infected/psycho/sober/drunk/whatever BEFORE you hopped into bed with them.