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Originally Posted by greenvillebuckeye
on a sadder note i guess, just received word that tonight's date is canceled....well being pushed to Thursday night. she text messaged me saying that she totally forgot she had plans with some of her friends for dinner tonight. sent 2 more texts telling me how sorry she was and so we are going out for date #2 tomorrow instead of tonight. this has now happened on 3 different occasions where we make plans and literally hours before hand she'll text me and say she forgot she had something else. Is this sketchy or should I not worry too much and continue to go with the flow? right now i'm going with the latter option and not making a big deal about it b/c i didn't have any other plans anyways for the following night so who cares right?
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Since this is now the third time this happened, i'd say she is a bit sketchy. What I think you should have done this last time was not give her a definite answer as to if you are available for Thursday night. You could have said 'Oh, you need to cancel? You want to do it thursday? Well..i will get back to you and let you know'. Nice and polite. Then, i would not have contacted her and backed off a bit.
Im not into getting into playing these little games with people, but maybe she does not place a high value on spending time with you, and finds it easy to blow you off because as you have shown her twice before, you will still be waiting around. Have you had a second date yet, or is the 2nd date that you guys are trying to set up?
If this is the 2nd date you are going for, Id say the fact she keeps canceling and changing the dates is a red flag. I would back off from her and not be too available to her for a bit to see how things play out. Keep your options open.
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