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Old 06-17-2011, 07:32 PM
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I just want to say that Iam enjoying the the feeling of a attractive woman showing interest in me and wanting to see me but do the guy have to do all the planning? I'm already going to pay for it so why can't she just suggest something and then I make my way out there? I been on the internet trying to find a restaurant in her area for the past 3 days. The one I recommended which has great outdoor eating and a beautiful she doesn't want to go. So I continue to find a place in HER AREA which I know nothing about that she will like. I don't mind it because she has come to my area twice already but I didn't know it was going to be this dfficult.

Since she is familiar with her area and knows what she likes is it silly that she can't suggest a place for us to eat?
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:34 PM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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Go on Zagats, or Yelp and find a place, don't tell her - surprise her. Then she can't say a word since it's going to be a surprise !
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Maybe she's afraid to suggest a place that's more expensive than you'd like? There could be a million reasons she's hesitant. And since it's SO EASY to google "restaurants in MyTown" you can handle the task on your own - you don't need her to do it.

Relax, and enjoy the ride! You have a date with an attractive woman!

You could always come up with three places that sound good to you, and then let her make the final choice.
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:38 PM
 
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geeezus!! its called google. why are you so lazy??? don't ever tell a woman "well I'm paying soo...". that would anger me.
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:40 PM
 
Location: southwest TN
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geeezus!! its called google. why are you so lazy??? don't ever tell a woman "well I'm paying soo...". that would anger me.
I just wanted to repeat what you said. You said it so well, there was no way I could say it in my own words.
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:41 PM
 
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I just wanted to repeat what you said. You said it so well, there was no way I could say it in my own words.
haha ya, if any man ever gave me the "well I'm paying.." line, that would be the last he saw of me. I don't need that.
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:45 PM
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Maybe she's afraid to suggest a place that's more expensive than you'd like? There could be a million reasons she's hesitant. And since it's SO EASY to google "restaurants in MyTown" you can handle the task on your own - you don't need her to do it.

Relax, and enjoy the ride! You have a date with an attractive woman!

You could always come up with three places that sound good to you, and then let her make the final choice.
Maybe I need to find another search engine because I been Google since 4pm and haven't found anything. Her area is like another country to me and it would be my first time going there and that's ok. Still searching
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Think of the bright side! Since it's in her part of town, maybe she'll invite you to her place after dinner. Does that motivate you to do some research? Avoid chains, unless you know she likes/prefers them (no, not McDonalds!) - go for the local establishment, even if it isn't fancy. Quaint or funky can be interesting, as long as the food is good.
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:47 PM
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haha ya, if any man ever gave me the "well I'm paying.." line, that would be the last he saw of me. I don't need that.

Of course I'm not going to say that to her but I just can' believe she is making this difficult.
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:51 PM
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Location: Pullman, Chicago
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I just want to say that Iam enjoying the the feeling of a attractive woman showing interest in me and wanting to see me but do the guy have to do all the planning? I'm already going to pay for it so why can't she just suggest something and then I make my way out there? I been on the internet trying to find a restaurant in her area for the past 3 days. The one I recommended which has great outdoor eating and a beautiful she doesn't want to go. So I continue to find a place in HER AREA which I know nothing about that she will like. I don't mind it because she has come to my area twice already but I didn't know it was going to be this dfficult.

Since she is familiar with her area and knows what she likes is it silly that she can't suggest a place for us to eat?
Then just say why don't I just come to your place and make you
some nice dinner. Bring some wine. Maybe she'll give you desert!
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